I'm not sure if this is the correct are to be posting this. But the problem is I'm in a relationship with someone who isn't exactly a believer, sometimes claiming to be but not at all devout, and having very backwards views on even basic Christian fundamentals. She does not place nearly as much importance in God as I do, and is even aware of some of the opposite views we have. This is becoming an issue since we're slowly approaching the marriage stage.
Meanwhile my exgf is interested in getting back together, but not pressuring at all. I'm really not a bad guy, and my interest isn't in going behind my girlfriends back. It's just my ex and I have recently been sharing our beliefs and interests for the future. Since marriage is growing more as my focus, I'm worried that a choice to stay with my girlfriend would have bad consequences in an unequally yoked marriage. It's not that I've lost interest in her physically or anything, but I feel horrible that I have emotionally, and I am certain it stems from my uncertainties of a future with her. I'm not saying I'd run straight to my ex, but I am just finding that speaking to a woman with the same beliefs is refreshing, and is causing me some distress.
Meanwhile my exgf is interested in getting back together, but not pressuring at all. I'm really not a bad guy, and my interest isn't in going behind my girlfriends back. It's just my ex and I have recently been sharing our beliefs and interests for the future. Since marriage is growing more as my focus, I'm worried that a choice to stay with my girlfriend would have bad consequences in an unequally yoked marriage. It's not that I've lost interest in her physically or anything, but I feel horrible that I have emotionally, and I am certain it stems from my uncertainties of a future with her. I'm not saying I'd run straight to my ex, but I am just finding that speaking to a woman with the same beliefs is refreshing, and is causing me some distress.