I could probably make this 8,000 words long... but I'll try to make it as short as I can.
First of all, I am 17 years old. I am vehemently forced to attend (and participate "enthousiastically") my parents' church.
My parents are a certain denomination which I will not name.. just so I don't offend anyone. They constantly laugh at and bash other denominations even IN church. They believe that anyone who is not of this particular denomination is not a "True Christian".
Once a few months ago I told my parents, "Mom and Dad, I really do not consider myself a (insert denomination here), and I really wish you would not force me to attend your church." My mother started to yell: "NO! You WILL be a Christian!!!! I command you to renounce this satan worship, because that is what it really is - The KING JAMES BIBLE says that rebellion is as the sin of witch craft."
THAT made me pretty mad. I lost my temper and said some pretty disrespectful things which I regret. They WON'T understand and or refuse to acknowledge that I AM a Christian.
Anyways, three times a week + special meetings I am forced to attend their church. And I HATE it. I am usually not smiling - ever, unfriendly, unsocial, miserable, and the first one out the door.
Once when there was a guest speaker (an extremly proud, hateful, racist, revolting, utterly desgusting PIG and complete JERK), I got in a lot of trouble for walking out 15 minutes before he finished speaking. I had to leave because it was making me sick. (I threw up later on), but I didn't dare tell my parents I felt sick otherwise they would have thought I was demon possessed or something. I was punished for this "extremly disrespectful act" - locked in my room for several hours so that I could read the KING JAMES BIBLE until I was ready to repent for my sins and take a biblical punishment (the "rod").
That is just one instance of which I am punished for being in dissagreement with their Church/standards/beliefs/interpretations of the bible.
I am really not sure how much more of this I can possibly take. I know I am supposed to "honor my parents", and maybe I'm wrong but I feel like by honoring my parents I am not honoring God.
For instance, I wrote a song on my guitar last year and my mother heard me singing it one morning and demanded to know where I picked up that "dreadful style of music", and I told her I'd come up with it myself. She freaked out and started going on and on about how I was worshiping the devil with rock music and that she was going to have to confinscate my guitar!!!! UUUGH. I wrote the song while worshiping GOD. It was a song about his magnificant power. I WAS HONORING GOD. Yes, I like non-traditional praise & worship music. I'm guilty, so shoot me!
OK, this I can take. But I cannot take their church. The church is nasty, legalistic, hateful, RACIST and close-minded. Their church is nothing but a tiny, cheap cardboard box that they all want to cram themselves into, shutting the lid tight, and when something chews a hole through the weak material, they all freak out.
What do I do? Do I need to change my attitude or what? Am I just being a rebellious, self-centered, whiny, little brat feeling sorry for herself, and playing the victim?
First of all, I am 17 years old. I am vehemently forced to attend (and participate "enthousiastically") my parents' church.
My parents are a certain denomination which I will not name.. just so I don't offend anyone. They constantly laugh at and bash other denominations even IN church. They believe that anyone who is not of this particular denomination is not a "True Christian".
Once a few months ago I told my parents, "Mom and Dad, I really do not consider myself a (insert denomination here), and I really wish you would not force me to attend your church." My mother started to yell: "NO! You WILL be a Christian!!!! I command you to renounce this satan worship, because that is what it really is - The KING JAMES BIBLE says that rebellion is as the sin of witch craft."
THAT made me pretty mad. I lost my temper and said some pretty disrespectful things which I regret. They WON'T understand and or refuse to acknowledge that I AM a Christian.
Anyways, three times a week + special meetings I am forced to attend their church. And I HATE it. I am usually not smiling - ever, unfriendly, unsocial, miserable, and the first one out the door.
Once when there was a guest speaker (an extremly proud, hateful, racist, revolting, utterly desgusting PIG and complete JERK), I got in a lot of trouble for walking out 15 minutes before he finished speaking. I had to leave because it was making me sick. (I threw up later on), but I didn't dare tell my parents I felt sick otherwise they would have thought I was demon possessed or something. I was punished for this "extremly disrespectful act" - locked in my room for several hours so that I could read the KING JAMES BIBLE until I was ready to repent for my sins and take a biblical punishment (the "rod").
That is just one instance of which I am punished for being in dissagreement with their Church/standards/beliefs/interpretations of the bible.
I am really not sure how much more of this I can possibly take. I know I am supposed to "honor my parents", and maybe I'm wrong but I feel like by honoring my parents I am not honoring God.
For instance, I wrote a song on my guitar last year and my mother heard me singing it one morning and demanded to know where I picked up that "dreadful style of music", and I told her I'd come up with it myself. She freaked out and started going on and on about how I was worshiping the devil with rock music and that she was going to have to confinscate my guitar!!!! UUUGH. I wrote the song while worshiping GOD. It was a song about his magnificant power. I WAS HONORING GOD. Yes, I like non-traditional praise & worship music. I'm guilty, so shoot me!
OK, this I can take. But I cannot take their church. The church is nasty, legalistic, hateful, RACIST and close-minded. Their church is nothing but a tiny, cheap cardboard box that they all want to cram themselves into, shutting the lid tight, and when something chews a hole through the weak material, they all freak out.
What do I do? Do I need to change my attitude or what? Am I just being a rebellious, self-centered, whiny, little brat feeling sorry for herself, and playing the victim?