tadoflamb
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- Feb 20, 2007
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Of course not. You are not responsible for the actions of those you try to help.( or anybody else for that matter)
That's how I see it.
This is a problem our church, and my husband in particular, are trying to deal with. A man in the area can't/won't hold a job and is always looking for handouts. He apparently is smart enough to know not to go to the same church two months in a row and has a route of 3-5 that he hits up. My husband has tried to help him get a decent job, has helped with transportation, tried to get him involved at church (unsuccessfully) but nothing ever seems to change. He called the church a couple of weeks ago for help getting the power turned back on, again. What gets me is he bought a car, but says he can't afford to get it registered, and bought a mobile home (not the best shape), but can't afford to pay bills.The only times he wants to go to church is when there is food involved. Then he packs up 3 dinners (for the family) and hangs around waiting to see if there are any leftovers he can have. I feel for the guys little girl and pray that someone will find the help he really needs, but sometimes I feel he is a lazy guy who would rather con people out of money and food than actually work for it.
There's that tricky little quote from St. Paul in one of his letters to the Thessalonians
If a man does not work, a man does not eat
There's a line somewhere between charity and welfare and we seem to bouncing around there quite a bit. We realize the work we do is the work of the Holy Spirit and so we try to let Him be our guide. We don't run into too many folks trying to abuse us, and the way we're set up it's hard to take too much advantage of us. I figure the best someone could do, by living off the various faith based charities is maybe live a couple months.
Food is fairly cheap and easy to come by, it's when we start to pay some big bills when the gift of discernment comes in handy. What I've realized lately is we shouldn't be judging people too much but sharing with them God's mercy. Eventually, you'd think, they'd start to wonder what makes us tick.
That great what you're doing with the blankets. Keep up the good work and may God bless you!
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