The Ideal Date

[TheLastGeek]

Honestly I have never really thought about things like that at all. As silly as this will undoubtably sound, I don't think it's ever gone beyond imagining myself and the future Lady Knight of my dreams cuddling in some endless field of flowers for our pre or post-marriage dates.

However, I do think @TheLastGeek really does have the right idea for first (and perhaps even second and third) date settings. As she said above:


In anything, on the one date I've ever been on myself, it took place at a coffee shop.

Be amused then, for I have never had a coffee shop date in my whole life! Probably because I never touched coffee in any form until recent years, lol. Now I love the stuff!

 

[TheLastGeek]

Well, that's cool! Perhaps you could check out some of her suggestions later on since your thoughts seem to match up!

I haven't really done the whole coffee date thing myself, mainly beause I'm not a usual coffee drinker. But I can imagine it being cozy!

Get some hot chocolate then! Or tea?

 

[SarahsKnight]

This is the sweetest thing I've seen all day! Are there actually men who WANT to cuddle?

Well, sure, Miss Geek. Why wouldn't we (guys in general, I mean)?

 

[TheLastGeek]

Well, sure, Miss Geek. Why wouldn't we (guys in general, I mean)?

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Do you really want me to answer that?

I think I'd rather just bask in the sweetness of your comment above.

 

[MehGuy]

Strolling through a cemetery.

I don't know... I'm not very good at this.

 

[Plenipotent]

Strolling through a cemetery.

I don't know... I'm not very good at this.

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... Oh I see... Mayhaps you can describe why that particular date springs to mind?

 

[MehGuy]

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... Oh I see... Mayhaps you can describe why that particular date springs to mind?

Cemeteries are peaceful and romantic.

 

[Plenipotent]

Cemeteries are peaceful and romantic.

Oh are they? I'm going to have to reflect on this for a bit of time.

Peaceful because there's no one around most of the time? Romantic is a real puzzler for me, but the thoughts I have on it have got me cackling, so I appreciate the input!

 

[MehGuy]

Oh are they? I'm going to have to reflect on this for a bit of time.

Peaceful because there's no one around most of the time? Romantic is a real puzzler for me, but the thoughts I have on it have got me cackling, so I appreciate the input!

Lol.. depends on the time of day and weather I guess. I was picturing a nice sunny afternoon. It'd be much different if it was at night.. or stormy.

I've always found cemeteries peaceful. Pretty grass.. something about being surrounded by death.. reminds me that.. no matter how hard life gets.. good or bad everything will cease to be.. including all my troubles. I think that's the big reason I find it peaceful. Romantic? I have a harder time pinpointing why. I've never considered myself goth or anything.. but there is something in at least some humans who find it romantic.

 

[Plenipotent]

Lol.. depends on the time of day and weather I guess. I was picturing a nice sunny afternoon. It'd be much different if it was at night.. or stormy.

I've always found cemeteries peaceful. Pretty grass.. something about being surrounded by death.. reminds me that.. no matter how hard life gets.. good or bad everything will cease to be.. including all my troubles. I think that's the big reason I find it peaceful. Romantic? I have a harder time pinpointing why. I've never considered myself goth or anything.. but there is something in at least some humans who find it romantic.

Well I appreciate you expanding on it! I think the peaceful aspect is a really nice way to look at it!

 

[Saucy]

I'm absolutely a cuddler myself. I think a movie night at home cuddling, holding hands, just watching something together would be perfect for me (in a gentlemanly way of course.)

 

[Plenipotent]

I'm absolutely a cuddler myself. I think a movie night at home cuddling, holding hands, just watching something together would be perfect for me (in a gentlemanly way of course.)

Ah, but now it begs the question! What kind of movies?

 

[Saucy]

Whatever she wants to watch

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Whatever she wants to watch

You wouldn't object in the slightest if she wanted some uber-cheesy rom-com like, say, The Notebook?

 

[Plenipotent]

You wouldn't object in the slightest if she wanted some uber-cheesy rom-com like, say, The Notebook?

Hey now, my brother is one of the toughest men I know, and he loves that movie. I've still never seen it, but he says it's a really good movie.

 

[MehGuy]

Have you ever seen The Believer? It's kind of like the notebook. And it stars Ryan Gosling too.

Probably make a good cuddling movie too.

 

[Plenipotent]

Have you ever seen The Believer? It's kind of like the notebook. And it stars Ryan Gosling too.

Probably make a good cuddling movie too.

Nope. Never seen that either. Now I'm going to need to watch these two movies. Mayhaps I shall do so tomorrow if I have time.

But movies and cuddling is certainly not a bad date situation!

 

[MehGuy]

Nope. Never seen that either. Now I'm going to need to watch these two movies. Mayhaps I shall do so tomorrow if I have time.

But movies and cuddling is certainly not a bad date situation!

Lol.

I love the Believer, but it's one of the most disturbing yet thought provoking films I have ever seen.

 

[Saucy]

You wouldn't object in the slightest if she wanted some uber-cheesy rom-com like, say, The Notebook?

Gilmore Girls is one of my favorite shows, so prolly not lol. I enjoy that stuff haha

 

[High Fidelity]

Ah, but now it begs the question! What kind of movies?

A good Christmas film, like Did Hard.