What do people with Cancer need? I have been taken by surprise and I do not know what to do. What do you do to convince them to accept treatments that could save their life? Does anybody know if faith healers really work?
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People with cancer need people who will listen when they talk (about the cancer or anything else under the sun), people who will be there when their hair falls out or they are puking their guts out from chemo, people who know there are no easy answers and aren't afarid to say "I don't know", people who will just sit quietly and hold their hand, people who will prapy for and with them, people who will call them out of the blue to let them know they are not forgotten, people who can be a little bit silly -- in short -- people who love them, no matter what.
As far as treatments go -- I think only another cancer survivor could convince someone who did not want to undergo treatments to do so.
Faithhealers? I wouldn't go there. I've known a few who went this route, convinced that So-and-so would heal them. The depression resulting from not being healed was more devastating than the original diagnosis.
Have you tried contacting the cancer society chapter in your area? They can give you info and contacts.Thanks. I need to find a Cancer survivor.
Have you tried contacting the cancer society chapter in your area? They can give you info and contacts.
What do people with Cancer need? I have been taken by surprise and I do not know what to do. What do you do to convince them to accept treatments that could save their life? Does anybody know if faith healers really work?
This is fantastic advice and bears repeating.Ok, I know this is an older thread, but I'd like to add to it.
When people tell you to "be there for them", that doesn't necessarily mean that you're there with them every single spare moment that you have.
Call the person and ask if there is anything that you can do for them. Ask if you can run some errands for them, or if there's something that they'd like to eat that you can bring them. Offer to mow their lawn, take their dog out for a walk, etc. Always call before you go for a visit, just in case they're not feeling up to it. Send them a nice card that says your thinking of them. And most of all, pray for them daily.
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