I figure I will chime in on page 1 before it gets to the standard 100+ pages that all topics like this get to.
Can they be "The Pastor", that is, the person on whom all the church is cared for by, no I do not simply because of the qualifications required to be a deacon which is to be a husband of only one wife which would mean that the person had to be male.
Now, I do believe they can be pastors, counselors, Sunday school teachers; when I say pastors I am referring to being music pastor or youth pastor or seniors pastor.
Women seem to be absolutely essential in the story of Jesus and his ministry so to stifle their contributions because of hyper-legalism is to fall to the yeast of the pharisees.
In summary; can they be "The Pastor" of a church, I believe no; can they be pastors and take care of spiritual matters for people in the church, I believe yes.