well ... first off - I suppose you decision really is for the best for your church. And furthermore, if my church was doing a similar event I'm prepared to bet they would arrive at EXACTLY the same decision.
Still ... I will offer these thoughts.
First, several commentators on this thread have criticized the Bond films because of their sexual content and violence. Certainly the old Bond shows had a lot of sex in them. But the most recent three movies are much more action-oriented, and have departed from a lot of the immature subject matter in the past. The latest James Bond is a more "serious" kind of individual. Also, to be quite candid. One of those movies, Casino Royale, showed Bond in love. Real love. And the big them of that show was "betrayal" ... which is a very good talking point for the church. As for the violence ... you can definitely argue that the movies espouse violence. But to me, at least, they are no more violent than any other major action-adventure show that comes out of the movie industry these days.
So what's the point?
Well ... I sometimes visit a site for Christian men who are invovled in outdoors activities. It's an online ministry. I have to tell you that the site is DEAD. The few people who go there are very nice people. But traffic is almost nonexistent and it's dead. Want an answer to a question? No problem. Ask one and come back in 6 months.
On the othe hand ... I also visit sites where "normal" (secular) men talk about things they like ... like guns and motorcycles. Those sites are hugely active. Guys are talking about mods to their motorcycles, where they rode, what gun they are buying, when they are going hunting - there is TONS of stuff going on.
So let's not kid ourselves about where the men ARE.
They are NOT in church ... and they've got no plans to ever be there!
Why???
Because it's a "boring", "irrelevant", and they keep showing movies like Nomo and Juliet ...
In no way am I trying to give a hard time to mawallace here.
This is a huge problem for the whole church.
It's been going on for a long time ... and has never been resolved.
blessings,
Gideonb123