Windmill-
My husband didn't ever [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] through any source of stimulation, wet dream or otherwise, until he was eighteen. In fact, he has never experienced a wet dream of any kind, and it isn't that his sperm takes a long time to build up. Some men don't experience wet dreams, and even if they did, it doesn't make masturbation wrong. Is it entirely necessary? Not in ever scenario. Some men want their first [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] to be with their wife on their wedding night, and I say props to them. But that's not the case with everyone.
Masturbation can quench the need to [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] in both men and women. I have had the equivalent to a wet dream before, and it did NOT help my desire to [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. In fact, it made it worse. And, as it was in the middle of the night and my husband was asleep, I used masturbation as a way to stifle that need for the moment. It helped. My husband is very similar. Sometimes he needs a release, and so he masturbates.
Masturbation becomes an issue when lustful thoughts(if married, lustful thoughts including anyone other than ones spouse) enter the mind. If married, it becomes an issue when it takes the place of a spouse. But masturbation, in and of itself, is not wrong, and can be exceedingly helpful to a lot of people.
Just because a man's body CAN take care of itself(not every man's body does), doesn't mean he's wrong for doing the job himself. As long as his intentions and thoughts are clean, there is nothing wrong with it.