Just because you have a different view, it doesn't make your view anymore sane than the next persons. One could say that once Palestine stops the suicide bombings, Israel could/would ease up..
One could say that, but it would sort of fly in the face of decades of Israel not easing up before Palestinian suicide bombings started a few years ago.
as it stands when some group is blowing themselves up every other day or every week in your cafe's, restaurants why would you scale back?
Well, you might ask what you did, and have been doing for 30 years, that made them angry and desperate and broken enough to blow themselves up.
Wouldn't you get an even tighter grip so that you could try and maintain the safety of your citizens?
The problem is that "tighter grip on your security" translates to "killing more Palestinian children" and that translates to "more Palestinians angry and desperate enough to blow themselves up". Israel officially apologising would be a good start, though by now I expect it would take an awful lot to convince Palestinians it was sincere.
Lastly, when that someone is a group that is on a binge to force you to leave your country, to get rid of the "jewish presence" from the middle east.. and yet it is your land.. wouldn't you fight as well? Then again, maybe not..
Quite right. When someone is a group that is on a binge to force you to leave your country, the land your family has been in for generations, to get rid of the "Arab presence" from your own land, bulldozing your homes, uprooting your olive trees, annexing your land with giant walls, building fortified settlements on your land, wouldn't you fight as well?
I'm not sure how your perspective takes into account the fact that attacks on civilians by Palestinians only started in the last 7 years, whereas Palestinian civilian deaths at the hands of Israeli forces have been going on for three decades. Do you really think this is an even fight? If a prominent Israeli leader (and his kids and anyone else standing near him) was assassinated by a Palestinian missile, would you see that in the same way as those scores of Palestinian leaders assassinated by gunship missiles?
10 years ago, people were saying, "If Israel doesn't stop doing this, the Palestinians are going to start doing something desperate, like suicide bombing."
I call my view the sane view because I think it takes into consideration the most factors. I think that a debate ranging from "Sharon shouldn't give anything to the Palestinians" to "Sharon shouldn't give anything without getting something in return" obscures the underlying assumption that Israel is either in the right, or at best is one of two equal parties in a bad situation. Israel as an institution owes the Palestinian people. The current rulers of Israel don't likely see it that way, but at some point in the future, they will, and reparations will be paid. If the world feels bad enough about it, they might make a state for the Palestinians. Movies will be made about it. Etc. The sooner this happens, the better.
The first smatterings of dissent are seen in the form of conscientious objectors from the IDF. It's going to grow. But the first step is this - more Israeli people realising the government that told them it was always right was actually wrong. The people always precede the government in objecting to institutionalised injustice.