My twin sister is a lesbian. She believes in God and prays and wants to go to church. Anyhow she has a fiancee. If these 2 were to do a civil union I think it is called.... I really don't agree with this however is it a sin if I show up? Like I don't know when they would ever do this. However I hate the sin... not the person.
If I go does that mean I support what she is doing? I just don't want to not show up if that looks like I am judgemental or hating. I don't agree however I still love her she is my twin you know?
colleen
That is an extremely difficult question. Homosexuality is definitely not the right way. For those who do not claim to be Christian, it is okay, but for those who do -- it is not their own body they are doing this with, but the body of the Lord. For when one is baptized in the Spirit they are as married, 'of one body and one Spirit'.
One might argue, "What then does it matter for one is as another", but this is obviously not the case. And there are plenty of perversions people do not do to themselves, and if they do, they will feel real shame about it if exposed. A Christian's walk should be blameless, and while they should feel shame about nothing, they will if what they are doing is shameful.
For instance, what this does is defy the strength of the sexes and their differences. While men may have female qualities and women male qualities, it is important that each feel they are their own and value that. That is good and in such a world where this is defied, people often get confused.
Such a thing also requires a considerable amount of work to change.
Yet, we should be kind and polite to such people on the other hand, or they may be alienated. If I were in your case I would reluctantly not attend, keep up distant personal relations, and be very gentle but judge them in spirit for that is where real power of change comes from.
It is not about condemnation, and that is important to understand. It is about people being who they really are and finding that. Something which is hard enough in this world and can take decades to reach for many.
Consider that as well in yourself. Is it not sacred who a person is, sexually? And is not the union of man and woman as well sacred and perfect?
Really understanding that brings one to the right conclusions and feelings about these matters naturally.