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I hope I am not intruding on this forum, as I am not a widow, but I do have some concerns about my recently-widowed mother, and I thought this might be the best forum for answers.
My dad died unexpectedly last week, despite good health and no known medical conditions. He was 56, and my mom is 55. He has always been the breadwinner and made a good income. My mom never worked or got any education. She didn't finish high school either. They owned their home and vehicles.
My dad wasn't old enough to retire, but he had a 401(k). I don't know if she can get that before she turns 60. He had a small life insurance policy that would be possible to live off for 5 years, if carefully budgeted. I don't know what she will do about health insurance, as she was covered under my dad's company-sponsored plan. She never intended to have a job, and I have no idea if she would be able to find one or perform at one. What does one typically do when widowed at age 55? She said they didn't really plan for retirement, even when he was alive. He liked working, and didn't plan to retire until he had to. He also didn't plan to die this young.
My dad died unexpectedly last week, despite good health and no known medical conditions. He was 56, and my mom is 55. He has always been the breadwinner and made a good income. My mom never worked or got any education. She didn't finish high school either. They owned their home and vehicles.
My dad wasn't old enough to retire, but he had a 401(k). I don't know if she can get that before she turns 60. He had a small life insurance policy that would be possible to live off for 5 years, if carefully budgeted. I don't know what she will do about health insurance, as she was covered under my dad's company-sponsored plan. She never intended to have a job, and I have no idea if she would be able to find one or perform at one. What does one typically do when widowed at age 55? She said they didn't really plan for retirement, even when he was alive. He liked working, and didn't plan to retire until he had to. He also didn't plan to die this young.