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The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.
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That is great!Thank you all so much! The past few months were tough on me, but I think the worst of it is over...............
.........And gradually, God used it to show me that my depression was unfounded, and that I was no mere label. I was God's beloved, righteous son, and I did not have to be subject to the mental pain I was in.
I'm not completely healed, and I never will be. But I am restored, and ready to face the challenges the world gives me.
Thanks. I never really seem to remember these verses in my dark moments. It's just more of that perfectionism I was having an issue with. It has to do with the stuff I described in my other post in the Christian advice section.
Now I'm "ok", but I honestly feel like the next time something happens, I'll let it get to me. Again. I guess I just sort of have to remember what I've learned about thinking like that.
Also, good news. I'm beginning to sort of accept my Asperger's. Or, namely, I'm beginning to realize that accepting it doesn't mean I'm accommodating flaws, excusing sin, being a jerk, etc. It sort of came with time and understanding but I think God had a lot to do with it. The Bible verses in my new signature sort of reflect this.
It's funny. Today I went into a pharmacy and got some stuff (alone), but when I was leaving I momentarily forgot my stuff--I paid for it and then left it on the counter and almost went back to my car (and no, no one bothered to point it out for me). I had to go back in there and get it, and when I was leaving I couldn't help but think of how awkward that was, or how if someone else in my family had been there they would have chewed me out for messing that up (or at least, I suppose they would have).
It's not that big of a deal, but I feel like that really should have been more awkward than it was. But I just remembered Isaiah 51:12 and remembered that it didn't matter what total strangers thought of me, or what people who didn't know me well thought of me. It just didn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
Thank you all so much! The past few months were tough on me, but I think the worst of it is over.
I think I realize now that I'm not just a label or something. I'm beginning to realize now that my identity is in Christ, and it feels so liberating to know that my life can't be defined by anything. I guess I sort of had an identity crisis, a very unique one that most people might not even consider one.
But I'm through with it now. I still don't know for certain what I'm going to do, but I feel like my misery is gone. I'm finding it easier to trust God and have found that there is so much I can do even without being the most gregarious person in the room to help people. So many people are suffering through things, some of them I'm familiar with and some I'm not. But they all need Christ and His love explained to them thoroughly.
I don't know if me having Asperger's is a result of the world's fallen state, but I do know that because of its fallen state I let such things ruin me. I have been surrendering for so long to Satan's lies that it's unbelievable to me know that I can fight back.
I want to let other people know that they can fight back. I think that's one of the main reasons there's so much evil and sin in the world--they say that it's inevitable. People are surrendering because they think it's their only option. Even with Christ in me I felt like I had to surrender. It took time for me to realize how much strength I truly had with Him.
And gradually, God used it to show me that my depression was unfounded, and that I was no mere label. I was God's beloved, righteous son, and I did not have to be subject to the mental pain I was in.
I'm not completely healed, and I never will be. But I am restored, and ready to face the challenges the world gives me.
I have not, I'll be sure to check it out. Thank you, BTW, for coming to understand us Aspies. I know that the church would be very kind to us if they just looked at it from our perspective momentarily.
Thanks for the link. I made sure to post an extremely long comment thanking the author. I should also point out that I was raised Presbyterian rather than Catholic (and where I live Baptist, Presbyterian and Methodist are basically your only religious options). Still, I really appreciate your efforts to reach out to people like myself. I find that older people (sorry I have to bring up your age, I get that some people are sensitive about it) are able to understand autism-spectrum stuff more easily than I would have expected.
When my younger brother (who doesn't have AS) was born, my late great-grandmother approached my mom and said, "He [me] is going to have a hard time adjusting." Mom had no idea what she was talking about, and keep in mind that this great-grandmother only saw me on Sunday afternoons after church (we had this family tradition where we would all eat lunch at her house). She explain to my mother that "he was happy when it was just the four of you [my parents, myself and my twin brother who also has AS]. But now the family has grown at will mess things up for him."
Apparently in her younger years, my great-grandmother had been a teacher, and so when my parents were seeking a diagnosis she explain that she had taught a bunch of kids like myself. Keep in mind that throughout all this she never actually knew what AS was--it wasn't known about extensively until the mid-90s. I can't tell you how nice it was to be understood without having to explain anything, and I wish more people were like that
That is why, for many of us, Wrong Planet is the wrong forum...... Regardless, I really would like to get rid of that stereotype that Aspies just "have" to be atheist.