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blythe_ann
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I picked "somewhat seriously". We religiously went to the 6 sessions with our pastor.
Did I learn anything? Not really. When you are together for 5 years, some of the practical stuff is taken care of ("how to handle your first fight", etc.) and some of it, you can't just discuss before hand.
As a person who has suffered from a sexual medical condition, I would have like to know that my condition existed before the doctor told me I had it, but no amount of counseling would have prepared us for it, and there was no way of knowing it would happen until after we were married (since we waited until we were married).
It may be helpful for some but it wasn't for us. We're happy regardless.
Did I learn anything? Not really. When you are together for 5 years, some of the practical stuff is taken care of ("how to handle your first fight", etc.) and some of it, you can't just discuss before hand.
As a person who has suffered from a sexual medical condition, I would have like to know that my condition existed before the doctor told me I had it, but no amount of counseling would have prepared us for it, and there was no way of knowing it would happen until after we were married (since we waited until we were married).
It may be helpful for some but it wasn't for us. We're happy regardless.
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