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thesongsofmysoul

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My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago - he just doesn't feel like he wants a girlfriend at this stage in his life and since he is young, I understand. He has a lot of others things to focus on. This has just crushed me though because I really really loved him. I try not to wallow and cry too much, but I am so hurt - he was my first boyfriend, we lasted almost 5 months. I had my first kiss with him, he was my first true love. We are on good terms, and he let me down as easy as he could. We are going to remain friends. If you are interested, you can read about how he feels at http://www.christianchapel.net/forums/showthread.php?t=12174

Pray for God to give me the strength. Pray that the stomach ulcer I am devolping will heal fast, that I will find some way to survive school. And most importantly, pray for God to heal my broken heart and to help me to get better and just move on.

Feel free to e-mail me - funinthesummersun@hotmail.com, because talking to people is nice. But most importantly pray for me - this is harder than I ever imagined. I know I am far luckier than most people, but even all those things people say like that just aren't helping.

I know I will be ok eventually, its just riding out the storm I am having problems with.

Pray for me - I truly believe in the power of prayer and have seen it in action. Most of you probably know how devastating break-ups can be, and I don't want others to see me in pain. This is my problem and I just need help. I need help to recover.

Thank you and god bless.
 

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It always feels better to talk about this rather than hold the hurt in.We all go through heartbreak.I prayed for you that your belief in yourself stays unharmed by the breakup.God's always our main love,right?
 
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with you on this sister,going through a rocky patch myself but christ holds the reins of my relationships so im not worried but ill pray that the holy spirit is sent deep within you to heal your wounded heart,that he sucks all the posionous bad feelings out and that you can carry on with your life...........amen
 
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Losing a loved one even when its just from a relationship, can bring on feelings you've explained, this is bereavement, this then leads to depression. You will get through this rough patch soon and things will seem clear again. but at present lean on the lord, cry your prayers to the Lord and im sure you will get through this soon.

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thesongsofmysoul said:
My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago - he just doesn't feel like he wants a girlfriend at this stage in his life and since he is young, I understand. He has a lot of others things to focus on. This has just crushed me though because I really really loved him. I try not to wallow and cry too much, but I am so hurt - he was my first boyfriend, we lasted almost 5 months. I had my first kiss with him, he was my first true love. We are on good terms, and he let me down as easy as he could. We are going to remain friends. If you are interested, you can read about how he feels at http://www.christianchapel.net/forums/t12174

Pray for God to give me the strength. Pray that the stomach ulcer I am devolping will heal fast, that I will find some way to survive school. And most importantly, pray for God to heal my broken heart and to help me to get better and just move on.

Feel free to e-mail me - funinthesummersun@hotmail.com, because talking to people is nice. But most importantly pray for me - this is harder than I ever imagined. I know I am far luckier than most people, but even all those things people say like that just aren't helping.

I know I will be ok eventually, its just riding out the storm I am having problems with.

Pray for me - I truly believe in the power of prayer and have seen it in action. Most of you probably know how devastating break-ups can be, and I don't want others to see me in pain. This is my problem and I just need help. I need help to recover.

Thank you and god bless.
 
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Hello girl friend,
I am sorry to hear that you are breaking up with your boyfriend. But no sweat, boyfriends they come and go.If the old don't go ,the new won't come ,Right ! Just look at the bright side. Try to think back, before you fall for this dirt-bag as your boyfriend,was he "really" the cutiest guy around ? Not really isn't it.
you need to learn to not so emotional attach to people. If they love you , you love them back .But in the back your head you need to remember execpt God's Love " Nothing Last for Ever ".

You got hurt ,because you weren't the one who ended the relationship. You didn't expect it would happen so sudden .You didn't see it coming. You weren't not in control. That why you felt like you are being thrown out a roller coaster. Next time , when you see there is something wrong going on with your relationship ,and you know the only right to stop it. Learn to be the one who call it quit. Don't be passive ,be Active. Be the one holding the steeling wheel. When it comes to breakup ,You will feel much better when you are in control.

You are still beautiful and funny and sweet. I bet there are many great guy out there want to go out with you.

Samll Fish
 
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Lord help this person to know that you love them and care for them. And that our sister needs to lean on you and guide and direct you. Help that all else will fall into place. And that you will know what to do with her and her boyfriend. In your name, amen.
 
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Feeling a little better, but come night time I give myself a chance to just let it all out, because I loved him so much. We were going to last for a long time, if he just hadn't gotten that sudden feeling. It happens.
I just keep from things that can trigger it, like music, which I only listen to at night to make myself get better. I am writing down all the past so I can just let it leave my head, but still have it for the future, because someday I want to be able to look back on this.

I occupy myself during the day to limit grieving, so only at night do I :cry: terribly.

Thanks all for praying for me, and your continuing prayers.
 
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