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doleo
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Hello,
I have lived a sheltered life. I am 31 and have not been with a woman, but have been with men. The last time I had any sexual contact with another man was almost 13 years ago.
Between then and now I have struggled with inappropriate contentography, and have gone in and out of periods where I am being abstinent from relieving myself.
I have done this since I was a kid, and find it difficult not to do this. I do not touch because it always brings bad thoughts. I do not feel like God wants me to.
Even though it has been 13 years since I have been with anyone, I have been tempted frequently when I do not relieve myself. The temptations can be so strong I shake and sweat in resistance.
Now I am in another temptation. I am doing what I need to do. I working at my job very hard, I am praying and reading the Bible, but I do so understanding that the decision is mine and mine alone.
People sometimes ask me if I am OK, and try to pry, but I have to tell them, "You cannot help me, nobody can. Only God can, pray for me please".
Please pray for me my name is David.
I understand that being with another man is as empty as it gets, and the physical experience isn't anything but pain. I understand this, and I understand it is only trying to fulfill a desire that God has put in us for a mate (Of the opposite sex) yet I am tempted like I need it like a man who hasn't had water in 2 days wants to drink the tall glass of icewater sitting in front of him.
I know God has a mate for me. I understand that. I know God doesn't want me to fall. I have come to realize, that the only thing that matters in life is your mate. Not your house, or your job, or your car, or even your friends.
The experience you share with your spouse in intimacy is the height of what we have here on this earth. If isn't, it is because you have given up on being friends, and have lost sight of what matters most.
I know that God has wonderful things for me. I have suffered so much. I am so tired. I just want it all to end. Nobody who hasn't withstood homosexual temptation can understand what I am trying to say. But you can pray for me, as one person who understands Jesus Christ is Gods son and the ONLY way to Heaven.
I have lived a sheltered life. I am 31 and have not been with a woman, but have been with men. The last time I had any sexual contact with another man was almost 13 years ago.
Between then and now I have struggled with inappropriate contentography, and have gone in and out of periods where I am being abstinent from relieving myself.
I have done this since I was a kid, and find it difficult not to do this. I do not touch because it always brings bad thoughts. I do not feel like God wants me to.
Even though it has been 13 years since I have been with anyone, I have been tempted frequently when I do not relieve myself. The temptations can be so strong I shake and sweat in resistance.
Now I am in another temptation. I am doing what I need to do. I working at my job very hard, I am praying and reading the Bible, but I do so understanding that the decision is mine and mine alone.
People sometimes ask me if I am OK, and try to pry, but I have to tell them, "You cannot help me, nobody can. Only God can, pray for me please".
Please pray for me my name is David.
I understand that being with another man is as empty as it gets, and the physical experience isn't anything but pain. I understand this, and I understand it is only trying to fulfill a desire that God has put in us for a mate (Of the opposite sex) yet I am tempted like I need it like a man who hasn't had water in 2 days wants to drink the tall glass of icewater sitting in front of him.
I know God has a mate for me. I understand that. I know God doesn't want me to fall. I have come to realize, that the only thing that matters in life is your mate. Not your house, or your job, or your car, or even your friends.
The experience you share with your spouse in intimacy is the height of what we have here on this earth. If isn't, it is because you have given up on being friends, and have lost sight of what matters most.
I know that God has wonderful things for me. I have suffered so much. I am so tired. I just want it all to end. Nobody who hasn't withstood homosexual temptation can understand what I am trying to say. But you can pray for me, as one person who understands Jesus Christ is Gods son and the ONLY way to Heaven.