May I present a thought for everyone?
Clearly this is very difficult and controversial theology. Clearly there are two sides who hold very strong and opposite views.
The OSAS side believes that there are verses, which when read without context, seem to clearly indicate we are saved by faith and faith alone independent of any other righteousness. Taking these verses to heart, they then use a "cannot lose salvation" presupposition to interpret verses that seem to indicate Christians can go to hell.
The non-OSAS side believes that there are verses, which when read without context, seem to clearly indicate that after accepting Jesus, some sins can send us to hell - thus we can lose salvation if we persist in them or die before we repent of them. Taking these verses to heart, they then use a "can lose salvation" presupposition to interpret the verses that seem to indicate we are saved by faith alone.
Both sides cannot be correct. The reason why I tend to side with OSAS is because every other religion is like the non-OSAS side in a practical sense. The muslims pray for forgiveness in the same way as what non-OSAS believers say we must do to keep our salvation (see:
How to repent from sins and ask for Allah’s forgiveness ).
What has made Christianity so special to me is that I believed my relationship with God does not depend on what I've done, but what Jesus has done for me, therefore I love God and I'm free to worship him through works - NOT for salvation - but out of love. If I am to pray for forgiveness for not doing the right works because if I don't I will go to hell, that robs me of the joy of my works - I want to do works because I love God, not because I will lose salvation if I don't. No longer am I obeying God because I love him alone, I am obeying God out of fear of losing salvation - precisely the motivation of the muslim and other religious people. Christianity would lose it's uniqueness. However - just because believing in non-OSAS robs Christianity of its uniqueness/power, doesn't mean that non-OSAS is false. Truth is truth - if we can REALLY lose our salvation, then it is a fact of life that we must live with whether we like it or not. How i feel about it is irrelevant.
Personally I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, either I believe OSAS and possibly risk going to hell for wrong theology (and evidently more than 50% of people responding to this thread are believing the wrong thing too), or I believe I can lose salvation and I am robbed of my joy of doing works for love of God rather than for avoidance of hell.