- Mar 26, 2004
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hah, when I first came to this forum I though wow, I should just leave, this is for people who have real problems like MASSIVE sexual and pysical abuse in thier past. Not people like me who just had a bit of emotional abuse and a teeeny weeny bit of sexual abuse mixed in. But now I'm not so sure. My head feels like it's trying to devide itself, my mood swings all over the place, and I can't stop thinking about my husband(my abuser). My thoughts are, in order,
Oh man, I put him in jail...he's going to be so mad at me...well maybe the (edited!) will actually change in there, and then I can go back to loving him and holding him close like I used to. I miss him so much! *remembers the scent of him* OH he was so sweet to me so many times, he brought me roses AND THEN HE LIED TO ME, WHY DID I EVER THINK HE WOULD CHANGE, HE CAN'T, HE WON'T, HE NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT ME. HE IS A DISGUSTING PIG, I JUST WANT TO SPIT THE GUY ON A FREKING PITCHFORK IT'S A GOOD THING HE'S NOT HERE NOW. He's not here now... But I did love him once..wait, I still do love him! I love his eyes...and the way he holds me when he's happy..and how his eyes tear up when he looks into my eyes, because he thinks I'm beautiful...So I dress up really pretty so he'll cry some more because I love being beautiful for him... and then HE DOESN'T NOTICE AND IGNORES ME AND ASKS ME TO CLEAN UP THE RUG OR WASH HIS CLOTHES WHILE I'M ALL DRESSED UP. AND IF I SAY NO HE CALLS ME STUPID (EDITED) OR JUST RAGS ON ABOUT HOW I'M HELPLESS (AND MEANS WORTHLESS) AND THAT HE HAS TO DO EVERYTHING FOR ME.
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Well you get the idea. I'm about to either go call a lawyer and get a divorce or go tell the police that I was wrong, he's a saint and it was all my idea to put him in there. Or scream until I lose my voice(again). Which would probably be better than either of the other 2 things. I'm on the freking edge of something here
Oh man, I put him in jail...he's going to be so mad at me...well maybe the (edited!) will actually change in there, and then I can go back to loving him and holding him close like I used to. I miss him so much! *remembers the scent of him* OH he was so sweet to me so many times, he brought me roses AND THEN HE LIED TO ME, WHY DID I EVER THINK HE WOULD CHANGE, HE CAN'T, HE WON'T, HE NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT ME. HE IS A DISGUSTING PIG, I JUST WANT TO SPIT THE GUY ON A FREKING PITCHFORK IT'S A GOOD THING HE'S NOT HERE NOW. He's not here now... But I did love him once..wait, I still do love him! I love his eyes...and the way he holds me when he's happy..and how his eyes tear up when he looks into my eyes, because he thinks I'm beautiful...So I dress up really pretty so he'll cry some more because I love being beautiful for him... and then HE DOESN'T NOTICE AND IGNORES ME AND ASKS ME TO CLEAN UP THE RUG OR WASH HIS CLOTHES WHILE I'M ALL DRESSED UP. AND IF I SAY NO HE CALLS ME STUPID (EDITED) OR JUST RAGS ON ABOUT HOW I'M HELPLESS (AND MEANS WORTHLESS) AND THAT HE HAS TO DO EVERYTHING FOR ME.
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Well you get the idea. I'm about to either go call a lawyer and get a divorce or go tell the police that I was wrong, he's a saint and it was all my idea to put him in there. Or scream until I lose my voice(again). Which would probably be better than either of the other 2 things. I'm on the freking edge of something here