Hi, I have a question - it might be a touchy subject for some but it's not my intent to make anyone mad lol.
I may be too conservative even for conservatives on this - but I am wondering if I am alone in thinking that if a married person in general is a habitual flirt, they are committing adultery?
Not trying to be holier-than-thou or anything - I feel guilty of a certain sexual sins - and even though I am angry about having committed them - the temptation is still there and I have to fight it. I have lost the fight numerous times.
Yes - I am aware that the Bible is not explicit on this type of thing (flirting). There are times where I think that even if it is not mentioned in the Bible, it may not necessarily mean it's not a sin (not trying to start a debate on that, please, I want to stick to the subject matter). But I also ask myself that what would Jesus think of this - would Jesus think that speaking to a person lustfully is a form of adultery too? I just don't seem to believe that flirting can be so empty as to not invite lustful thoughts into the mix.
Is it ok to strongly object to your spouse flirting with someone else? Is it ok to think they are committing some form of adultery? Is it just me?
I may be too conservative even for conservatives on this - but I am wondering if I am alone in thinking that if a married person in general is a habitual flirt, they are committing adultery?
Not trying to be holier-than-thou or anything - I feel guilty of a certain sexual sins - and even though I am angry about having committed them - the temptation is still there and I have to fight it. I have lost the fight numerous times.
Yes - I am aware that the Bible is not explicit on this type of thing (flirting). There are times where I think that even if it is not mentioned in the Bible, it may not necessarily mean it's not a sin (not trying to start a debate on that, please, I want to stick to the subject matter). But I also ask myself that what would Jesus think of this - would Jesus think that speaking to a person lustfully is a form of adultery too? I just don't seem to believe that flirting can be so empty as to not invite lustful thoughts into the mix.
Is it ok to strongly object to your spouse flirting with someone else? Is it ok to think they are committing some form of adultery? Is it just me?
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