Hi all,
I am coming to you with a very heavy heart for my 7-year old daughter, Lauryn. She is the middle child and has always been a true joy, and a source of almost daily frustration as well. She is very moody and perceives herself to the be the victim at all times. If her older sister looks at her, it can set her off, or if anything in the slightest goes wrong, it can set her off. We were just at Target and they didn't have her size in a dress she wanted, so she started crying and yelling at her sister in the checkout line. She can be highly explosive and cries at the drop of a hat on an almost daily basis. At the same time, she can be very loving and creative and wonderful and she has a sweet side of her that can melt your heart. I know that she has learned some of her behaviors from me, as I also tend to have an explosive temper at times (but never in public!), but we have been working very hard with her to stay calm and try other approaches when letting feelings out. We have also had her in therapy for a while now.
Anyway, her counselor just recommended that she be put on medication. She is being referred to a child psychiatrist for this and her appointment is in January. The thing is, we are terrified of this. We are afraid that she just wouldn't be her anymore. We are afraid of her becoming one of those teenagers who is on medication that gives them suicidal thoughts. I have been on anti-depressants in my life and I know how they can really numb you out. I feel a huge responsibility to do the right thing here. This is not me we're talking about, this is my child, and I don't want to screw her up. Also, I feel bad that she either inherited this tendency from me, or learned it from me.
I love this child so very much. I love all my children equally, but each is special to me in their own way. I want to save her. I am praying for her and both my husband and I have felt like putting her on medication would not be God's best for her. But, after the way she is acting tonight, I just don't know what else to do. I don't know how to help her control her temper or deal with her feelings. I feel like the enemy has an assignment over her life that we need to break off her in the name of Jesus.
Would any of you be willing to say a prayer for her and for us to make the right decision? We would be so very grateful.
God bless,
Pam
I am coming to you with a very heavy heart for my 7-year old daughter, Lauryn. She is the middle child and has always been a true joy, and a source of almost daily frustration as well. She is very moody and perceives herself to the be the victim at all times. If her older sister looks at her, it can set her off, or if anything in the slightest goes wrong, it can set her off. We were just at Target and they didn't have her size in a dress she wanted, so she started crying and yelling at her sister in the checkout line. She can be highly explosive and cries at the drop of a hat on an almost daily basis. At the same time, she can be very loving and creative and wonderful and she has a sweet side of her that can melt your heart. I know that she has learned some of her behaviors from me, as I also tend to have an explosive temper at times (but never in public!), but we have been working very hard with her to stay calm and try other approaches when letting feelings out. We have also had her in therapy for a while now.
Anyway, her counselor just recommended that she be put on medication. She is being referred to a child psychiatrist for this and her appointment is in January. The thing is, we are terrified of this. We are afraid that she just wouldn't be her anymore. We are afraid of her becoming one of those teenagers who is on medication that gives them suicidal thoughts. I have been on anti-depressants in my life and I know how they can really numb you out. I feel a huge responsibility to do the right thing here. This is not me we're talking about, this is my child, and I don't want to screw her up. Also, I feel bad that she either inherited this tendency from me, or learned it from me.
I love this child so very much. I love all my children equally, but each is special to me in their own way. I want to save her. I am praying for her and both my husband and I have felt like putting her on medication would not be God's best for her. But, after the way she is acting tonight, I just don't know what else to do. I don't know how to help her control her temper or deal with her feelings. I feel like the enemy has an assignment over her life that we need to break off her in the name of Jesus.
Would any of you be willing to say a prayer for her and for us to make the right decision? We would be so very grateful.
God bless,
Pam