- Oct 12, 2023
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Everyone has issues though and how could we work on issues if she is not admitting she has trust issues ? Like without transparency how can we move forward and without working on them that’s gonna bring unnecessary drama. Also as Christians isn’t that’s where honesty come in & accountability? I understand if i was a worldly guy looking for sex but as a Christian man im celibate so that’s y im confused?She does sound insecure - constantly wanting to be told she is beautiful, or feeling you don't tell her often enough.
Please don't assume she is being deceitful/ungodly/manipulative, however. She may have issues with rejection, have had a bad experience with a man, be trying to live up to someone else's ideals or something else. She may have a deep hurt that she cannot admit to anyone, or even have a deeply hidden memory that she can't recall but which is affecting her behaviour.
If you like her, you have been in a relationship for a while, you trust her and she feels secure with you, it should be possible to explore these things together. Yes, possibly counselling would benefit her at some stage - but it would be better if that suggestion came from her. If someone admits they have a problem, that's half the battle.
What your saying makes sense though sounds like she has some deep insecurity issues but it still seems like she was not putting God and our relationship with God into consideration.
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