Hi,
I don't know where to begin so I'm just gonna type then tryto make heads or tails of it... I have been married for 15 years. We have no children. I work outside the home as does he. He works or is gone most of the time. I feel like I'm in a marriage by myself. I feel underneath the back burner of his life, like I bear no importance to him at all. The relationship the last few years has been rocky at best. I actually wanted divorced, but I was unsure of how God would view it. My husband has expressed alot of anger toward me yelling & screaming alot, shoulder shoves as we pass in the hall way, slamming doors, etc. He actually got so angry once that while he was storming out of the driveway he, as he puts it, "bumped" me with his vehicle and slung gravel everywhere. He has taken no responsibility for his actions. He has actually left me standing in the middle of our datenight (in the middle of the date) literally in the isle of a store, at a whim, to go fishing with his friends we ran into. the list could go on & on of very simular events... I just am not sure as to what God wants in this relationship, stay/go? If I stay how do I cope? If I go how will I make it? Do I have right to remarry or must I remain single? I'm just at a loss as to what to do. I ask for your prayers and any words that you may have to share. Thank you so much!
I don't know where to begin so I'm just gonna type then tryto make heads or tails of it... I have been married for 15 years. We have no children. I work outside the home as does he. He works or is gone most of the time. I feel like I'm in a marriage by myself. I feel underneath the back burner of his life, like I bear no importance to him at all. The relationship the last few years has been rocky at best. I actually wanted divorced, but I was unsure of how God would view it. My husband has expressed alot of anger toward me yelling & screaming alot, shoulder shoves as we pass in the hall way, slamming doors, etc. He actually got so angry once that while he was storming out of the driveway he, as he puts it, "bumped" me with his vehicle and slung gravel everywhere. He has taken no responsibility for his actions. He has actually left me standing in the middle of our datenight (in the middle of the date) literally in the isle of a store, at a whim, to go fishing with his friends we ran into. the list could go on & on of very simular events... I just am not sure as to what God wants in this relationship, stay/go? If I stay how do I cope? If I go how will I make it? Do I have right to remarry or must I remain single? I'm just at a loss as to what to do. I ask for your prayers and any words that you may have to share. Thank you so much!