I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I know living with someone that your not married to is a sin. But what if you have a complex situation? I should point out I am disabled, 30 and do live with my parents who are also christian.
I am talking to a girl out of the coutry. She does not know anyone here and can't really afford to stay at a hotel. She wants to come here on a tourist visa and see if we get along as well as we do online. We both VERY much agree no sex before marriage and no sleeping in the same room. Which also is a requirement of my parents since it is their house.
So when shes here, she will have my bedroom and I will skeep downstairs in my "man cave" (lol). And most likey when she comes back again (assuming all goes well) she will be coming using a fiancee visa and stay with us again until we mary (you have 90 days to do so on that visa).
So would you say this arrangment is a sin still even if we sleep apart and have no more contact other then a simple hug and/or kiss? I would think it would not be because of the sleeping arangments and everyones strong view on it. I think God would understand that she has no other place to stay and we are obeying his commands. As long as the relationship is not about sex then we should be ok I would imagine. We are taking every step to avoid the smallest amount of temptation.
On a side note this girl said if I even showed any sign of wanting to have sex or do anything of the nature she would leave me and never talk to me again. She said hugs are acceptable, kisses once we are married though.
I am talking to a girl out of the coutry. She does not know anyone here and can't really afford to stay at a hotel. She wants to come here on a tourist visa and see if we get along as well as we do online. We both VERY much agree no sex before marriage and no sleeping in the same room. Which also is a requirement of my parents since it is their house.
So when shes here, she will have my bedroom and I will skeep downstairs in my "man cave" (lol). And most likey when she comes back again (assuming all goes well) she will be coming using a fiancee visa and stay with us again until we mary (you have 90 days to do so on that visa).
So would you say this arrangment is a sin still even if we sleep apart and have no more contact other then a simple hug and/or kiss? I would think it would not be because of the sleeping arangments and everyones strong view on it. I think God would understand that she has no other place to stay and we are obeying his commands. As long as the relationship is not about sex then we should be ok I would imagine. We are taking every step to avoid the smallest amount of temptation.
On a side note this girl said if I even showed any sign of wanting to have sex or do anything of the nature she would leave me and never talk to me again. She said hugs are acceptable, kisses once we are married though.