My wife and I have been married for 5 months now. My wife's family has a tight relationship and they are also Christians. My wife and I warned them 3 months ago that we could be moving. There recitations were awful especially from the mother and law. She started to be mean, selfish, and manipulative and would make me feel like I am doing something terribly wrong. She would also try and make the both of us feel bad for her. Come 3 months later I got a job that is two hours away from them. The mother in law in doing the same thing again. I have honestly never been this stressed or hurt.
They claim that I don't know my wife and that I am not thinking about her. They also said that she will just tell you what you want to hear. When they said that it tore me right open.
As a Christian I am suppose to do what I believe is best for my Family and be able to provide for my Family. The bible warns us if we don't. The bible also talks about departing from your family when your married. I don't see anything biblically wrong for what I am doing but they make me feel like I am some awful person. My wife is supporting me through this entire thing but it has been extremely hard with the in laws. My prayers have been clearly answered that it is okay to move but overcoming the in laws it extremely challenging.
They claim that I don't know my wife and that I am not thinking about her. They also said that she will just tell you what you want to hear. When they said that it tore me right open.
As a Christian I am suppose to do what I believe is best for my Family and be able to provide for my Family. The bible warns us if we don't. The bible also talks about departing from your family when your married. I don't see anything biblically wrong for what I am doing but they make me feel like I am some awful person. My wife is supporting me through this entire thing but it has been extremely hard with the in laws. My prayers have been clearly answered that it is okay to move but overcoming the in laws it extremely challenging.