no, not really, not a good thing. Too easy for things to turn bad. Too much conversation leads into things you do not need to be talking about. My wife does not do this, husband does not do that,,,If you want to be friends, it needs to be couples only. This is how many affairs start.
guard your heart with ALL dilligence
I agree.
In some rare cases as long as husband and wife agree,
a married person might have an old friend of the opposite sex
but this is rare and in fact I cannot think of any examples.
We belong to Christ and we do not belong to ourselves
and we are admonished to flee situations that can
cause misunderstanding and temptations and bring division
into our marriage.
Marriage is so special to God that He likens our faith in Christ
as a betrothal of marriage to God's own Son in which we will
be joined together as ONE at the consumation of the wedding
feast of the Lamb in the new kingdom.
Just as we are not to allow anyone or anything come between us
and our Lord so too, in earthy marriage, nothing should be allowed
to bring a division between husband and wife.
So what does your wife think?
Why are you asking us when she is the one that matters.