Hi, yes, I'm new, and I'm desperate for some advice.
My girlfriend (now ex-gf, I suppose) split up with me a few days ago because her family is falling apart and she can't really handle our relationship right now. Her parents are splitting after 34 years and she may have to move to a different state altogether.
I realize I may never get her back, and that's ok with me. All I want now is to be a support to her. Yes, my heart is completely crushed that she left me, but even more broken because I know she's suffering terribly.
How can I be a support to her without her feeling like I'm pressuring her to take me back? Yes, in the long run I want that, but I know it's not time for that yet.
HELP ME PLEASE!
My girlfriend (now ex-gf, I suppose) split up with me a few days ago because her family is falling apart and she can't really handle our relationship right now. Her parents are splitting after 34 years and she may have to move to a different state altogether.
I realize I may never get her back, and that's ok with me. All I want now is to be a support to her. Yes, my heart is completely crushed that she left me, but even more broken because I know she's suffering terribly.
How can I be a support to her without her feeling like I'm pressuring her to take me back? Yes, in the long run I want that, but I know it's not time for that yet.
HELP ME PLEASE!