God's answer to your question is the day your ex dies. But most don't take much stock In what He has to say about it.
Yes, I guess so in my situation. I don't know. He chatted for 3 years, sex once a year to get a kid, he didn't feel attracted to me anymore and I had a prenatal depression and got the wrong medication, which ended in a suicide attack. He was shocked and said he wanted to divorce, he said that before I did the attack, that he would get the kids. Phoned me in the mental hospital. He wasn't really sure, but I said: You wanna wait 5 years, how long seperated? He didn't know. I said: Do you mind if I take someone else? He said: I wouldn't care less if you took 10. So 2 days later I run off with a fellow patient, jumped into bed with him, I was totally unstable and insane at the moment and then I smoked pot and thought God said I was married now, because he had been having an affair I had a biblical reason. Well 7 weeks later he phoned me if I wanted to come back, but I couldn't, I was already married to the other guy, we did that ourselves and Leviticus says it's a sin to go back to your ex. I thought God approved, lived together in sin for a year, believing I was remarried with a Biblical reason and then we were officially divorced and the guy didn't want to marry legally, it costed to much, I had to pay alimony then. That's when I saw I was mislead (I fell off my faith by the way and he was an atheist and on drugs, my first husband was a pastor), he was done with it too, because I got the kids back and he didn't like them, he was autistic. Phoned my ex, he wanted to try again, he said, but he was dating someone else, which I didn't know. Then he said he didn't find me attractive anymore and the guy wanted to talk things out, so we married within 2 months since sex before marriage is a big sin. Then I was remarried and from day one I thought I was the one that committed adultery now. It was a disaster of course, divorced 1,5 years later. It was a sin to remarry and a sin to divorce I thought. Well when he was finally through with it and tried to choke me, I was free. If the unbeliever leaves, let him go. Before we married he said he was very interested in God and went to church and he didn't do drugs anymore. Within a few months he started again and he just hated it that I was a christian. My first ex remarried too with someone who was divorced twice, after 6 months she left him, because he didn't have enough money. In that time I had my third boyfriend, only a month, he's really sweet, but he lives far away and 3 kids.. he said I love you, but I want a family of my own. Stayed friends with him, only on a forum and sometimes we phoned, never saw him.
Well now my first ex is in my house all the time, because he called the kids cops that I didn't clean up and now I can only have them with an adult around and since my parents live too far away and I have no friends, he's the adult. If he doesn't do this and just gives them, they might place the kids with other people. He just wanted me to get help with bringing them up, but here we are, I was not alone with Christmas with my ex in my bedroom (I only have 2 rooms) and me and the kids in the other. He comes here, because he has no internet yet and he's skyping all the time with that woman that was the cause of our divorce. The church was doing well again, since we repented and I also went there, but I never believed it that he really chatted, thought it was all my fault, now I heard for myself. Now God forgives everything and I don't even hate that woman anymore and if He's okay with it, what do I care? But it just doesn't feel good all this grace teaching and ask forgiveness and marry another. I felt so lonely now and the exboyfriend called me if I wanted to meet just as friends (hmm). I'm really in love with him, he's sweet and since I know this I might think yeah I had a Biblical reason, but this sunday there's no church. This isn't good. We had a calling for ministry and we're just busy with ourselves. I asked the Lord a few months back: What do You want? Do I have to go back to my first ex or second ex or marry this guy? He said: Marry Me, time is short. They married and were giving into marriage. So I believe I'd best just stay alone. I Always thought in Noah's time angels had sex with women, but I don't see that happening now and it would be like in the days of Noah. What I do see is what happened then: the sons of God, the christians marry whom they want without any Biblical reason. 1,2,3,4, who cares?