Bonhoffer
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- Dec 17, 2003
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It is not a sin to be bisexual or homosexual. Sin is defined by anything you freely choose to do that seperates your from a relationship with God. Did you choose to be attracted to girls?memoryroad said:i know it's a sin in the eyes of God to be bisexual. My question is, how do I stop? I lust for girls or crush on them sometimes even against my will. It's so natural to me, it's just like liking a guy.
However lust--treating either men or women are sex objects is always wrong! Having sex outside the context of loving heterosexual marriage is wrong.
People can choose to be in a homosexual relationship. They can choose to have sex outside of marriage. So you are only sinning if you a)engage in homosexual practice b)get together with a member of the same sex c)dwell on inappropiate thoughts.(thats not the same as having them in the first place) But the good news is that there is 'no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus', and we are all sinners who fail everyday.
No amount of sin can ever stop God from loving you. You are just as valuable to him as anyone else.
The bad news is although God can do anything and by the power of prayer He could stop your attraction to girls, He probably won't do so. If you were totally gay you would probably be called to celibacy. But it isnt quite as bad if you are bisexual, then you can have a husband like anyone else. The key is not to fight the fight by yourself. You are not to worry and beat yourself up all the time. You are to give it to God and ask Him to help you.
Remember it is not your fault, and its not Gods either! Homosexuality is a result of the fall, just like heterosexual lust is.
Even if you fail to resist temptation, that means you are human!
We all fail everyday, but we should try to be on the right path.
Just place Jesus in your heart and He will look after you.
God Bless
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