I know this great guy; he's smart, funny, sweet, passionate about everything he is involved in...all of the things I would want in a relationship, really.
I know he's attracted to me, and wants to pursue something. It's not that he's not good looking, because he is. I just am not attracted to him like I have been to other guys I have dated. We've been on a few dates, and I had a great time. But haven't felt that feeling yet...you know? I know I love talking with him, being with him, etc....but it feels like somehthing is missing. I've only ever had one relationship that was somewhat serious and exclusive; other than that the few dates here and there that never turned into anything in the long run other than friends.
Does this mean that nothing will probably come of our relationship, so no need to keep trying? I mean, it should work, in theory (hah), so why don't I feel it?
some women in my family have told me that "forever love is not a flittering of the heart and a flip of the stomach...it's compatibility and kindness in the long run"-way beyond the "gushy lovey feeling" as they love to say. Am I just a 'silly little girl' who has a wrong notion of what a good relationship is supposed to be like?
Has anyone had this issue, and worked around it; learned to feel for the person; or it just never worked?
I know he's attracted to me, and wants to pursue something. It's not that he's not good looking, because he is. I just am not attracted to him like I have been to other guys I have dated. We've been on a few dates, and I had a great time. But haven't felt that feeling yet...you know? I know I love talking with him, being with him, etc....but it feels like somehthing is missing. I've only ever had one relationship that was somewhat serious and exclusive; other than that the few dates here and there that never turned into anything in the long run other than friends.
Does this mean that nothing will probably come of our relationship, so no need to keep trying? I mean, it should work, in theory (hah), so why don't I feel it?
some women in my family have told me that "forever love is not a flittering of the heart and a flip of the stomach...it's compatibility and kindness in the long run"-way beyond the "gushy lovey feeling" as they love to say. Am I just a 'silly little girl' who has a wrong notion of what a good relationship is supposed to be like?
Has anyone had this issue, and worked around it; learned to feel for the person; or it just never worked?