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This is mostly to wives who are believers in the Lord Jesus Christ and follow Him, and are married to men who are not, or who are believers but not fully walking with the Lord.
My husband and I are going through difficult times financially, and it spills over affecting our marriage. At times I think the mess we're in, as a husband and wife, is because of my husband. I follow the Lord with all my heart, keeping His command and loving Him, believing Him and honoring Him, so it must be my husband's fault if things aren't going well. After all, He devotes little to no time to the Lord on a daily basis, and values other things more highly. He admits himself that He doesn't hear the voice of the Lord. That in itself is rather scary, but I best not get into all that. With all that in mind, I have been praying, asking the Lord what to do about him. How do I respond when he loses his cool? When he makes bad financial decisions? When he conceals matters a husband and wife need to talk about? I thought I'd hear something like, love him, bear with the weak, fast and pray for him, or the like. I heard quickly, "Let him be the boss". :o
I am reading and studying this, for I must think His thoughts on it.
1 Peter 2: 18-20 You who are servants, be good servants to your mastersnot just to good masters, but also to bad ones. What counts is that you put up with it for God's sake when you're treated badly for no good reason. There's no particular virtue in accepting punishment that you well deserve. But if you're treated badly for good behavior and continue in spite of it to be a good servant, that is what counts with God.
21-25 This is the kind of life you've been invited into, the kind of life Christ lived. He suffered everything that came his way so you would know that it could be done, and also know how to do it, step-by-step.
He never did one thing wrong,
Not once said anything amiss. The Message
1 Peter 3:1 In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over 2 by observing your pure and reverent lives.
5 This is how the holy women of old made themselves beautiful. They trusted God and accepted the authority of their husbands. 6 For instance, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, and called him her master. You are her daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husbands might do. NLT
Yes, Lord. I receive this correction and change the attitude of my heart.
Though I did not belittle my husband, preach at him, or condemn him, in my heart I thought poorly of him, thinking he is making wrong decisions. Though I did not get angry, or use harsh words, I tried to get him to do things my way, which I believe is a better way. It is. But that doesn't matter. God is looking at my heart, and He has said how I am to respond to my husband.
Yes, Lord. And I will regard him highly for the office he holds, much the same way I do those in civil authority, or my boss at work. I will speak to him as such, and be attentive to what he says. I will remember it is the Lord whom I serve, and I will treat him as I would my Lord. Only if my husband asks me to disobey the Lord will I oppose myself in any way. Even when those in authority make wrong decisions, whether it is slaying the innocent by abortions, or squandering money, I still must respect them. Whether it is the president siding against Israel or a husband speaking harshly to me, I must honor them.
My husband and I are going through difficult times financially, and it spills over affecting our marriage. At times I think the mess we're in, as a husband and wife, is because of my husband. I follow the Lord with all my heart, keeping His command and loving Him, believing Him and honoring Him, so it must be my husband's fault if things aren't going well. After all, He devotes little to no time to the Lord on a daily basis, and values other things more highly. He admits himself that He doesn't hear the voice of the Lord. That in itself is rather scary, but I best not get into all that. With all that in mind, I have been praying, asking the Lord what to do about him. How do I respond when he loses his cool? When he makes bad financial decisions? When he conceals matters a husband and wife need to talk about? I thought I'd hear something like, love him, bear with the weak, fast and pray for him, or the like. I heard quickly, "Let him be the boss". :o
I am reading and studying this, for I must think His thoughts on it.
1 Peter 2: 18-20 You who are servants, be good servants to your mastersnot just to good masters, but also to bad ones. What counts is that you put up with it for God's sake when you're treated badly for no good reason. There's no particular virtue in accepting punishment that you well deserve. But if you're treated badly for good behavior and continue in spite of it to be a good servant, that is what counts with God.
21-25 This is the kind of life you've been invited into, the kind of life Christ lived. He suffered everything that came his way so you would know that it could be done, and also know how to do it, step-by-step.
He never did one thing wrong,
Not once said anything amiss. The Message
1 Peter 3:1 In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over 2 by observing your pure and reverent lives.
5 This is how the holy women of old made themselves beautiful. They trusted God and accepted the authority of their husbands. 6 For instance, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, and called him her master. You are her daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husbands might do. NLT
Yes, Lord. I receive this correction and change the attitude of my heart.
Though I did not belittle my husband, preach at him, or condemn him, in my heart I thought poorly of him, thinking he is making wrong decisions. Though I did not get angry, or use harsh words, I tried to get him to do things my way, which I believe is a better way. It is. But that doesn't matter. God is looking at my heart, and He has said how I am to respond to my husband.
Yes, Lord. And I will regard him highly for the office he holds, much the same way I do those in civil authority, or my boss at work. I will speak to him as such, and be attentive to what he says. I will remember it is the Lord whom I serve, and I will treat him as I would my Lord. Only if my husband asks me to disobey the Lord will I oppose myself in any way. Even when those in authority make wrong decisions, whether it is slaying the innocent by abortions, or squandering money, I still must respect them. Whether it is the president siding against Israel or a husband speaking harshly to me, I must honor them.