@RaylightI
before, I was just answering you question as an abstract philosophical/theological question
but now that you have shared more about yourself and your situation, I will answer you more personally
first and foremost
God bless you and your partner for choosing celibacy
that is the FIRST thing that ANY Christian should say to you on this topic
you are my brother in Christ and I love that you two have taken such a principled stance
that is the FIRST and FOREMOST thing that any Christian should say to you.
I mean, this is just an internet forum, you do not really know me, you do not know if I am just saying this so I look good
like I am trying to make myself look more "tolerant" or whatever
but I do mean this from my heart
God bless you
a few months ago I heard the testimony of a celibate Lesbian on EWTN (that is the Catholic radio station in the USA, not sure if they have that where you are?)
anyways
one of the topics she brought up
she was living with a woman, but both of them were Christians, they were celibate
but things did not work out, and they went their separate ways, and she heard that 9 months after they separated, her former partner was getting married to a man.
and this tore her up inside
and she understood, that she had a kind of sexless pseudo-marriage with that woman
but it was not a marriage, and to have lost that, it tore her up inside.
after this she became very promiscuous
we can have friendships
we can have deep friendships filled with love and kindness
but.... if we turn it into a kind of pseudo-marriage, that might not be the best for us psychologically or spiritually
we can see this for straight people too
like people who live together before they get married have a higher divorce rate
just food for thought
from your brother in Christ