father seeks help with very young wife who seeks ana bortion.

[juden6940]

Ok, thank you. We had not thought of asking help from any state agency, but we will now if they can. Because things like formula and everything can be very expensive.
I will call and ask our state office then. I ofcourse have insurance through where I work as well for my family.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

that is good, but WIC is just a food program.

We have insurance to, and now it looks like we have to change it, which will be very hard to do since I am pregnant.

 

[juden6940]

I am sure she will be
That's one thing I am worried about, that I'm going to be outnumbered 3 girls to one boy, me.

 

[juden6940]

Why do you have to change insurance? Why is it hard to do when you're pregnant?
My wife does not even have new maternity clothes, shrts , dresses or anything yet.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

Why do you have to change insurance? Why is it hard to do when you're pregnant?
My wife does not even have new maternity clothes, shrts , dresses or anything yet.

We have to get new insurance because they raised our rates once again and we can't afford it, and neither can my father in law who employs my husband.

Because pregnancy is concidered a pre-existing condition, so until I am no longer pregnant I cannot get new insurance.

Wal-Mart has some cute maternity clothes for a pretty cheap price.

 

[juden6940]

I am sorry to hear about the rough time your family is going through with your insurance. I will pray for you and your family to.
Cool, I'll tell her we coud go there and look for some maternity clothes. She wants to find some cute dresses she said, especially for summer.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

when is she due?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I am sorry to hear about the rough time your family is going through with your insurance. I will pray for you and your family to.
Cool, I'll tell her we coud go there and look for some maternity clothes. She wants to find some cute dresses she said, especially for summer.

We go through this alot, and it gets really tough when he gets laid off in the summers.

 

[juden6940]

She is due in early June, but I just meant besides finding maternity dresses, she just wanted to find some summer dresses, shorts and everthing anyways.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

yeppers, Wal-Mart is good for that. She is due right after me, I am due mid May.

 

[juden6940]

What does he do, your husband? Are you a stay at home other like my wife?
Ya, it does get expensive. I remember the first time, only we didn't foot the bill that times,Our parents did which I am eternally grateful.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

they were trying to presure me into a c-section, but I said no to that. They would have taken baby three days after my birthday. I want to labor naturally.

 

[juden6940]

How many children have you got? Are you excited?
What does your husband do?
I think my wife prefers herself naturally, like our first one, but on the other hand if it got to be to long, I think she would just want them to go in.
I dunno though. My older sister had a c-section, and has an awesome 8 year old boy. I have two wonderful nephews 8 and 6, who are great older cousins to my lil girl.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

What does he do, your husband? Are you a stay at home other like my wife?
Ya, it does get expensive. I remember the first time, only we didn't foot the bill that times,Our parents did which I am eternally grateful.

He makes fireplace parts for his dad's company, I am a bus driver. I work part time but bring home more than hubby, driving a bus pays very well but you have to be 21 and over.

 

[juden6940]

I want to have a fireplace someday, and to build our own house. I am learning how to from my father in law.
Building fireplaces would be cool. Does he like it?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I have a daughter and an unknown gendered baby in heaven. We lost our first when we were married 5 months and found out we were pregnant with our daughter when we were married 8 months. So this is my third pregnancy.

My daughter was born on her cousin's first birthday, and I fear that this little one will be born on another cousin's forth birthday or her uncle's 28th birthday. Her uncle's birthday is the day before my due date and her cousin's birthday is 8 days after my due date.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I want to have a fireplace someday, and to build our own house. I am learning how to from my father in law.
Building fireplaces would be cool. Does he like it?

He loves it, but he knows that he needs to get a better job if I am going to stay home with the girls. Though I do plan on at least one more year driving bus. This summer will give me my first taste of being a SAHM.

 

[juden6940]

Well, I hope you love being a stay at home mom when your husband gets a different job, and it's to bad he is going to have to give up one he loves.
I am sure your daughter will be a beautiful baby girl (Mine was, just like her lil mama)
WE will pray for you.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

and I will pray for you guys. And you are so lucky to have the support system you have, we only have one side of the family to support us. My family lives over 900 miles away, his lives less than 2 minutes away.

 

[juden6940]

Thank you very much. I know we're blessed. most teenage pregnancies and such end in disaster. Both sides were right with us from the start two years ago, but still wanting to remind us of how wrong it was what we did together back then.
Even though they made us marry, they have always been there to help us through things. Right now, we wouldn't beable to do it without them. My in laws know though that even though we are young, I love their daughter and my kids with all my heart, and do my best for them.