I don't know but like I was sleepy and then this came to mind and it kinda made me courious. Well anyways we all know that god is omniscient right?
all-knowing, yes . . . including that He knows more about the answers to your question than any of us do
I think the Bible says we can't figure God out >
"Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and His ways past finding out!" (Romans 11:33)
And ones understand this means God does destine people, but that we can't figure this out. But, I do not see only an issue of who is in control of humans; but what matters more than just control is how God's
"ways past finding out" are in His love; so if we relate with one another in God's love with His leading and guiding us, we will discover that ways of our relating in love will be
"past finding out"!!! We won't be trying to figure each other out and try to control one another for what we want, but in His love we will be >
"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)
So, Bible doctrines are not only for comparing intellectual ideas, but for helping us to discover how to love . . . with God who is the only One who really knows how to love. So, in considering predestination, we need to discover the love meaning of predestination, first - - the practical meaning, and not only trying to figure it out intellectually.
If we believe God knows the future, we might consider that He knows the future because He will control it. It is kind of hard to know what will happen, if you don't have any control of what will happen
So doesn't that mean our story plays out or something?
Well, when you watch a movie, you don't know what will happen, but you relax and "ride" to where the movie's producers take you; and this includes how you will be reacting emotionally and influenced to see things. You are trusting those producers, and the producer already knows how the movie will develop and what will happen to each person in the movie; and the makers of the movie even can know and control, more or less, how you will become because of the movie.
Like this, we can trust in Jesus (Ephesians 1:12) and rest and ride in how His grace of His love and leading takes us.
Or else, ones can have a hard life >
"Good understanding gains favor,
.But the way of the unfaithful is hard."
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Proverbs 13:15)
It kinda be like me writing book or something and I knew the whole story before it even started.
Well, the Bible tells us things about what will turn out, including >
"For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren." (Romans 8:29)
So, predestination is about God's purpose to have
"many brethren" for His Son Jesus Christ. So, God is about family, not only free will > independence is an idol for some number of people > worldly people are so concerned about control and possession and independence and knowing, and so they miss out on how they could be family with one another. Worldly ones can be so impressed mainly at how God knows and is all-powerful, and they can even fuss a lot about how much control God has. Meanwhile, while their attention is to such concerns of their ego, they neglect how He is
"Our Father" (in Matthew 6:6:9, Luke 11:2) and
"God is love" (1 John 4:8&16) > God is mainly about having a family for His Son Jesus who is the Groom of us who are the bride church of Christ.
God in His love for Jesus has destined this. You might consider how if you love something or someone, your love for a certain thing or person can have a big effect on what you do and how you relate with different people. "Therefore", our Father's love for His Son Jesus has so much to do with what is destined.
So, predestination is about intimacy with God Himself in His own family caring and sharing love > Romans 5:5. And this all-loving love has us seeking for any and all people to share with us and our Groom Jesus in family caring and sharing love. And you might notice if and how much "predestination" people are about this > Jesus calls to
"all"; He has this hope for
"all" > Matthew 11:28-30.
Included in our destiny as Christians is how we specialize in love and mercy and compassion and forgiveness for any and all people. God's love in us does no less!
Predestination, then, is not so much about intellectual ideas and making them answer to us!! Predestination, then, has to do with what will happen because of our Father's love for His Son Jesus. And we see how determined our Father and Jesus are > Jesus came to this earth, in order to reach us personally and share personally with people, and then Jesus suffered and died like He did so we can share with Him in His own love, after being forgiven and reconciled with God so we can love the way He has us discovering how to love.
So, what and who you love has a lot to do with all that will become of you.
Also wouldn't this affect free will as well.
You might take a look at how many people choose in their free wills to be about family caring and sharing love, and seeking to share this with any and all people, wishing that any and all people become adopted by our Heavenly Father, so they may share with us and our Groom Jesus in family caring and sharing love. And you might notice if and how much "predestination" people are about this . . . versus predestination being only an idea to argue for.
This is just a curious question so yeah
I was curious about what I should believe; now I'm more into being curious to see how God corrects me and has me discovering how to love.