Christian females, I mean the serious born again Christian ladies and not just Christians by title, what did your husband or courting partner say to you when they first got together with you? I am not talking about the proposal for courtship, but before that. Did they say anything that hinted their desire for you?
The reason I'm asking is this....there's a godly girl in my school I really like. I talked with her on the phone today and asked if she ever wants to hang out someday, and she approved. Now I plan to tell her this, "since I first saw you, I've wanted to have an opportunity to talk with you more and be good friends with you." I am just wondering if that will give her the impression that I am interested. That is exactly what I attempt. I plan to show her I am interested without rushingly expressing feelings with statements like "I wanna get to know you." So I ask you ladies if your partner did the same, if he said something that told you he's interested without him directly expressing a straight "I'm interested in you" type of statement. Did you get the idea right away that he is interested? Because I really want to show my desire in an appropriate way. I don't wanna sneak in my attempt to court her, but at the same time not try to get into a quick courtship prematurely.
The reason I'm asking is this....there's a godly girl in my school I really like. I talked with her on the phone today and asked if she ever wants to hang out someday, and she approved. Now I plan to tell her this, "since I first saw you, I've wanted to have an opportunity to talk with you more and be good friends with you." I am just wondering if that will give her the impression that I am interested. That is exactly what I attempt. I plan to show her I am interested without rushingly expressing feelings with statements like "I wanna get to know you." So I ask you ladies if your partner did the same, if he said something that told you he's interested without him directly expressing a straight "I'm interested in you" type of statement. Did you get the idea right away that he is interested? Because I really want to show my desire in an appropriate way. I don't wanna sneak in my attempt to court her, but at the same time not try to get into a quick courtship prematurely.