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It is strange that so many Christians have this fixation on sinful acts, especially bodily sin, considering that our sins are forgiven through faith in Jesus Christ. We are forgiven as long as we remain aware of our sinful nature, knowing that we are bound to go wrong now and then. Ruth Page explains that constant preoccupation with one's sins is equal to inverted egocentricity. It could produce psychological disaster. She criticizes the "traditional and still valid conception of sin as consuming preoccupation with oneself. The difficulty in the traditional view is that this egocentricity was called 'self-love', and the recommended alternative was self-denial or even self-hatred" (Ambiguity and the presence of God, 1985, p. 182). But one cannot love others unless one loves oneself, which is Erich Fromm's conclusion also. She continues:
It is remarkable that the Christian message is so hard to understand. It has gone 2,000 years, and people still don't get it. People are still under the law of sin.
Selfish people cannot love—either themselves or others. Loving oneself does not mean being lost in admiration at one's own qualities and goodness and thus oblivious to all else. That indeed would be as narcissistic as the constant search for one's sins. Instead of that, loving oneself means the recognition of the human being one is, with all one's potentialities, with the result that 'respect for one's own integrity and uniqueness, love for and understanding of one's own self cannot be separated from respect and love and understanding for another individual'.
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But sin does not remove the relationship, for it is God’s nature always and everywhere to relate. We do not ‘clear the way’ to God, as it were, by our repentance and confession, but in our repentance we find his forgiveness already there, waiting for us. When we open ourselves to any experience we find God already there, prevenient in it, and this is true of remorse and admission of failure also. We still have to live with the consequence of our actions, but there is no need for an accumulation of guilt to corrode our capacity to respond, since we are forgiven. (ibid., pp. 183-86)
It is remarkable that the Christian message is so hard to understand. It has gone 2,000 years, and people still don't get it. People are still under the law of sin.