You're getting answers. They're just not answers you like.
And I've asked a lot more questions to which I've had no answers at all.
Ok, let's have a look at this question of Scripture, and how to interpret it. There are a couple of options:-
1.
Do you take everything that's written literally?
If you say "yes", it is the word of God and he meant what he said exactly as he said it; what do you do with passages such as "If your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away." Presumably this is just as much the word of God as anything else, and if you are taking it literally, presumably you've done it?
If you say "no" - great. You've recognised that the Bible contains history, allegory, parable, poetry and we have to sort out which is which. And also read it in context and with understanding of the people to whom it was addressed.
2
Do you believe that everything that was written to the cultures then applies to our culture today?
If you say "yes", what do you do with verses that speak about treating your slaves kindly - when slavery was abolishe 200 years ago? (In Britain anyway.) What about the verse in which Paul tells Timothy to take a little wine for his frequent illnesses? The water we drink today is far more hygenic than it was then, so do we apply that verse, and do we take it literally? Even alcoholics and those who don't drink wine?
If you say "no", then you recognise that the Bible was written to people of different cultures, and whatsmore, some of what was written is pastoral advice to those facing specific situations/problems and not a blanket command from God to be slavishly followed by all people everywhere in all ages.
Now apply these two questions to the verses on women in church.
1 Corinthians 14:33 says -
"as in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches".
Do you believe that this means that Paul is saying that women should always remain silent in church today? If yes; do you practise it? If you believe this, you shouldn't be allowed to pray, sing, rea the Scriptures, give a testimony etc in church. Why? Because the word of God says so and should be obeyed. But you've already said that it's ok for a woman to be a pastor if it's to an all-female congregation - so obviously you can't take this verse literally or apply it today. Which immediately raises the question; why have you decided to disregard this verse, while insisting that other Scrioptures be rigidly obeyed and applied to or situation today?
Also, if you take this verse literally, what do you do with the fact that Paul allowed women to pray and prophesy?
What could it mean?
Well if you read further in the passage, you'll see the words " they must be in submission as the law says" what law - we're not under law. And also the words "if a woman wants to enquire about anything she should ask her husband at home". So women were speaking in church because they, or some of them, were asking their husbands in the service about anything they didn't understand. So immediately that paints a different picture from saying that Paul forbade all women from speaking in church.
(to be continued)