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Just reading through this forum and thinking on the subject -
Why do you suppose we (society?) tend to only seem to care about ONE of the many vows, during a marriage.
I've NEVER heard somebody say "My wife's been cheating on me. She's been breaking her vow to Love and Cherish me..."
I've never heard a gossip group whisper "There goes mike! He's been cheating on his poor wife. Yup. He's stopped honoring her."
The 'Forsaking all others' vow seems to be the only vow people care about.
Well, friends, if you're neglecting any of the vows you made that day, you're in essence cheating on your spouse - you are cheating them out of the promise you made to them.
When I read about a spouse committing adultery I instantly wonder "I wonder how many vows broken by that guy/gal's spouse influenced his/her decision to stop forsaking all others?"
Truth is - like it or not, if you've stopped Loving and Cherishing your spouse, it should come as no surprise if they admit breaking the vow of forsaking. In fact, not always of course, but I bet a large part of the time, NOT forsaking the vows to love, honor, and cherish would do a LOT to prevent the other spouse from 'not forsaking all others.'
Thoughts?
Why do you suppose we (society?) tend to only seem to care about ONE of the many vows, during a marriage.
I've NEVER heard somebody say "My wife's been cheating on me. She's been breaking her vow to Love and Cherish me..."
I've never heard a gossip group whisper "There goes mike! He's been cheating on his poor wife. Yup. He's stopped honoring her."
The 'Forsaking all others' vow seems to be the only vow people care about.
Well, friends, if you're neglecting any of the vows you made that day, you're in essence cheating on your spouse - you are cheating them out of the promise you made to them.
When I read about a spouse committing adultery I instantly wonder "I wonder how many vows broken by that guy/gal's spouse influenced his/her decision to stop forsaking all others?"
Truth is - like it or not, if you've stopped Loving and Cherishing your spouse, it should come as no surprise if they admit breaking the vow of forsaking. In fact, not always of course, but I bet a large part of the time, NOT forsaking the vows to love, honor, and cherish would do a LOT to prevent the other spouse from 'not forsaking all others.'
Thoughts?