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Ok i seem to have this new friend in my writing group who keeps giving me stuff but then she also 'lends' me books that I dont ask for. like I dont ask to borrow anything but she kinds of dumps it on me to read and then expects it back.
I just think she starting to be real pushy and I dont do the same thing if I give a book I would have already read it and dont expect it back.
The problem when people lend you books is you dont know when you going to get round to reading them and then when you supposed to return them. And then you have this hanging over you.
Plus its not books I would have chosen for myself really. Im just annoyed because the books, some of them are old right..and I thought she didnt want them, but now it turns out she does and its hard to keep track because I reguarly cull books I dont read or taking up space. I just dont want this hassle.
Especially for books I havent asked for. I think it MIGHT look interesting but it doesnt mean I will actually read it, anyway, I have told her I have NO more room for any of her stuff (she says shes moving house so expects everyone else to act as free storage for her) i didnt realise this at first but I kinda feel used. She does this to other people as well I gather.
Any advice for dealing with this situation.
I just think she starting to be real pushy and I dont do the same thing if I give a book I would have already read it and dont expect it back.
The problem when people lend you books is you dont know when you going to get round to reading them and then when you supposed to return them. And then you have this hanging over you.
Plus its not books I would have chosen for myself really. Im just annoyed because the books, some of them are old right..and I thought she didnt want them, but now it turns out she does and its hard to keep track because I reguarly cull books I dont read or taking up space. I just dont want this hassle.
Especially for books I havent asked for. I think it MIGHT look interesting but it doesnt mean I will actually read it, anyway, I have told her I have NO more room for any of her stuff (she says shes moving house so expects everyone else to act as free storage for her) i didnt realise this at first but I kinda feel used. She does this to other people as well I gather.
Any advice for dealing with this situation.