The greek word for fornication means alot more than what most people would think it means, I can recommend a good website which gives alot of the different meanings of the word fornication in the greek language. It is Jesus-messiah, .com. I think it's really strange that you even comment and judge so quickly on my page when I am simply trying to encourage another 'sister in christ' to follow God. I thought this forum was for encouragement and edification not tearing down and judgement. For your information no my partner is not 'desperate' as you say, he is a very handsome and good looking male, and would have alot of women wanting to date him if he were single. But I suppose when you are an ex-model you would get that wouldnt you? No 'Highlife' the reason is quite simple, it's because he loves me, he has never felt this way about anyone in his life until he met me. We have been through our struggles together and our highs together, I am his bestfriend and he is mine, we hang out all the time, talk about everything, goof around and adore each other. You say if I really loved him I would get on with the marriage?? What the...seriously this is some wicked judgement coming from someone who doesn't even know myself, my partner or our situation..If you must know though we definitely do want to get married, yes 2011 was going to be our year, for engagement, then eventually marriage, as we both live in a foreign country (australia) but are from NZ our families are all overseas so unlike people who just get married for the sake of 'having sex' or to just 'get married' we wanted to wait until we had the funds and were stable and when our families could afford to come over. Unfortuately life has a good way of throwing obstacles at you, and my partners dad died suddenly at the end of the year from a heart attack, and now my partner is 26 without father or mother (his mother died from the disease MS), he had only just gotten over his mothers death let alone his dad dying aswell. So once again we have had to spend our savings on going back to NZ for the funeral, and right before christmas you can only imagine the cost of this. So at this present time, we are slowly getting through this, and for the grace of God he is helping us do it. My partner is receiving counselling, and I commend him because not many males would have the courage to admit they aren't stable and want to get counselling, so once again marriage is on the backburner whilst we get through this difficult stage in our lives. My partner does not feel like he can't do any better, it is because he loves me AND he loves God that he wants to do this, and I can assure you our relationship has been so much better for it, we talk more, fight less and on our wedding night when we do share our special night together it will mean so much more. So tell me since you are such the 'expert' on my life how would I 'really be following God' if I were to move out?? The reason I haven't moved out is because he didn't want me to, I was willing to move out if it would make it easier for him. Not to mention the fact we pretty much share a whole household together, it would be pretty strange to move out and split everything. If a guy is going to MB in the shower don't you think he will do it whether or not his girlfriend lives there? I have a scripture for you, it's something Jesus said - 'Do not judge, so that you will not be judged, for in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure.