Hi, I have heard differing opinions in answer to my question and was wondering if someone could set me straight?
Basically, I had been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit when in a moment of weakness, we lost our virginity to each other. This was in late December. I soon began to feel very guilty and when Lent started I had a chat with him and decided to stop having sex and wait until marriage like originally intending.
I am truly sorry that it happened and if I could turn back time and give myself some good advice I would! The trouble is that even though I always intended to wait for marriage, I did so because of my love for God and not of the "consequences" that might happen if I didn't, I was never too worried about that and never really looked into it. After having sex, my friend told me that I am now banned from receiving communion since I'm not married yet. I was absolutely distraught when I heard this, and a bit angry because I don't think that if you are truly sorry and show that in confession, that you should be banned from receiving God's healing through communion. I asked my parish priest about this and he said he wouldn't ban me but that "different people have different opinions". Tomorrow is my first confession since I lost my virginity and I am extremely nervous.
So to cut to the chase, could anybody give me some advice and shed some light on the church rules?
Basically, I had been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit when in a moment of weakness, we lost our virginity to each other. This was in late December. I soon began to feel very guilty and when Lent started I had a chat with him and decided to stop having sex and wait until marriage like originally intending.
I am truly sorry that it happened and if I could turn back time and give myself some good advice I would! The trouble is that even though I always intended to wait for marriage, I did so because of my love for God and not of the "consequences" that might happen if I didn't, I was never too worried about that and never really looked into it. After having sex, my friend told me that I am now banned from receiving communion since I'm not married yet. I was absolutely distraught when I heard this, and a bit angry because I don't think that if you are truly sorry and show that in confession, that you should be banned from receiving God's healing through communion. I asked my parish priest about this and he said he wouldn't ban me but that "different people have different opinions". Tomorrow is my first confession since I lost my virginity and I am extremely nervous.
So to cut to the chase, could anybody give me some advice and shed some light on the church rules?