So I'm generally a very upbeat guy, but let me know if this sounds a bit pessimistic to you.
I just find the prospect of having a family so disheartening. I mean I'm thinking about it, and it's like you're supposed to have kids and raise them up properly so that they can have kids and raise them up properly so that they can have kids and raise them up properly and eventually I just end up asking: What's the point? Okay, I mean sure, continuing the human race and all that sort of thing, but that doesn't really seem to be a crisis at this point. I think the human race will manage. I'm talking more about the point in the sense of the ultimate teleological purpose. What's it all leading towards? Anything? I mean, having a job so you can put food on your table so you can raise your family properly seems like, well, treading water.
Here's the deal, though. I'm not one of those militant single-for-lifers (or at least, not yet). I want to get married, and at some point I even want to have kids. But I'm torn on that. There's just this part of me that keeps asking "Why?"
Can anyone relate?
I just find the prospect of having a family so disheartening. I mean I'm thinking about it, and it's like you're supposed to have kids and raise them up properly so that they can have kids and raise them up properly so that they can have kids and raise them up properly and eventually I just end up asking: What's the point? Okay, I mean sure, continuing the human race and all that sort of thing, but that doesn't really seem to be a crisis at this point. I think the human race will manage. I'm talking more about the point in the sense of the ultimate teleological purpose. What's it all leading towards? Anything? I mean, having a job so you can put food on your table so you can raise your family properly seems like, well, treading water.
Here's the deal, though. I'm not one of those militant single-for-lifers (or at least, not yet). I want to get married, and at some point I even want to have kids. But I'm torn on that. There's just this part of me that keeps asking "Why?"
Can anyone relate?