I have come to this board seeking advice on a very difficult issue that has plagued me since I was a very young child.
My father was an extremely abuseful when I was growing up. He had problems with alcohol and drug addiction. I would often be playing in our backyard and stumble upon half-used bongs and syringes carelessly disposed in our gardens. I had contracted Hepatitis B by the age of 12 due to a needlestick injury. I remember countless nights that I was unable to get to sleep because I could hear the violent outbursts towards my mother.
When I hit puberty, he began touching me inappropriately. It started with him walking in on me in the bathroom masturbating. He pulled me to the floor and began violating me orally. Things worsened from this point as his sexual deviancy advanced into full-blown rape when my mother was not home.
I turned to God for help and ran away only mere months later. I've only recently began contacted my family again. The question that plagues me is whether or not I should tell my mother (and the rest of my family). Apparently he no longer has an abusive or addictive personality (but can anyone truly change?).
Please help me.
In God we trust.
-TouchedByGod
My father was an extremely abuseful when I was growing up. He had problems with alcohol and drug addiction. I would often be playing in our backyard and stumble upon half-used bongs and syringes carelessly disposed in our gardens. I had contracted Hepatitis B by the age of 12 due to a needlestick injury. I remember countless nights that I was unable to get to sleep because I could hear the violent outbursts towards my mother.
When I hit puberty, he began touching me inappropriately. It started with him walking in on me in the bathroom masturbating. He pulled me to the floor and began violating me orally. Things worsened from this point as his sexual deviancy advanced into full-blown rape when my mother was not home.
I turned to God for help and ran away only mere months later. I've only recently began contacted my family again. The question that plagues me is whether or not I should tell my mother (and the rest of my family). Apparently he no longer has an abusive or addictive personality (but can anyone truly change?).
Please help me.
In God we trust.
-TouchedByGod