That is absolutely not true. Learn the other side before attacking.
Beleive it or not, rejecting the TULIP does not mean you don't believe God sin't sovereign. God's big enough to stay soverign even if he chooses to give man the choice of cooperating with Him (synergism).
Titus 2:11: “For the grace of God which brings salvation has appeared to
all men…”
John 1:9: "There was the true light which, coming into the world,
enlightens every man."
From a firend of mine:
"As the classic text in 1 Jn 2:2 tells us of Jesus "and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world" (1 John 2:2). When scripture speaks of the scope of redemption, usage of words like "all" are not only not infrequent, they are the norm. Passages which spring to mind include the following: "God our Savior... desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth" (1 Tim 2:3b-4), and "For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men [Paul is not speaking here of salvation (all men are not saved), but that the grace which brings salvation appears to all, not just to some], teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age" (Titus 2:11f.). The Corinthians were also told that Jesus "died for all" (2 Cor 5:14); Paul wrote Timothy of "Christ Jesus who gave Himself a ransom for all" (1 Tim 2:6), and to the Romans that "through one act of righteousness there resulted in justification of life to all men" (Rom 5:18: DNTT III, 365: "the justification of the individual springs entirely from that of all men (Rom 5:19), so that it is not we who possess righteousness but righteousness which possesses us; we are its servants..."). Peter wrote of God "not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). John wrote of Jesus "and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world" (1 John 2:2), and that Jesus "came for a witness, that he might bear witness of the light that all might believe through Him (John 1:7). Jesus proclaimed: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Old Testament: "...I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn back, turn back from your evil ways..." (Ezek 33:11); "Ho! Everyone who thirsts, come to the waters..." (Is 55:1a). Cf. 1 Tim 4:10; 1 Jn 2:2-4; Titus 2:11f.; 2 Cor 5:14; 1 Tim 2:6; Rom 5:18-19; 2 Peter 3:9; 1 John 2:2; John 1:7; Ezek 33:11; Is 55:1a; 53:6; 2 Pet 2:4, etc. It is particularly significant that such language does not appear to occur rarely. It is the norm rather than the exception. Paul, Peter, John, Jesus, Luke, and a number of Old Testament authors all used this language. Especially because of this fact, efforts to relativize the meaning of some of the phrases (e. g. that John's "whole world" really only means "whole world of the elect" as A. Pink claimed) appear to this writer to be little more than special pleading"
That's just one of the reasons I see Calvinism as untenable from a Biblical view.