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  1. charligirl

    Been a long time since I was here last!

    You too, you've had another since I was last about!
  2. charligirl

    Got Advice?

    I woudl really suggest you do your homework and seek God on the issue of immunisation. The reason we have no childhood killer diseases in the west is because of immunisation - however in the Uk some of the old terrible diseases are returning because so many parents are not immunising out of...
  3. charligirl

    My story - with an S.O.S.

    What a heartbreaking story. But I do see some rays of hope that shine out, you were attracted to her once and you say it's like living with a friend so you obviously still have affection for her. The answer to your situation is obviously prayer. God is for you and your marriage and only He...
  4. charligirl

    Been a long time since I was here last!

    But I am pregnant again with baby #2 and thought I should join in and get some fellowship with other Mums.
  5. charligirl

    Got Advice?

    Pretty much exactly what I was going to say!
  6. charligirl

    taller girls and shorter guys

    My DH is an inch shorter than me... I swore I would never date a guy shorter as well!
  7. charligirl

    ???

    By chemistry do you mean you don't fancy them physically? I once dated a guy for 2 years, we started as friends and I didn't fancy him at all.. but we had mental chemistry and that developed into a physical chemistry.
  8. charligirl

    What if your guy doesn't feel the same way you do about celibacy?

    I am sorry if that's how you read my post, I think you have misunderstood my intention. I NEVER stopped desiring a husband in the 10 years I waited until I met mine - I believe that if you have the desire for a spouse it is indeed Godly, God gives us the desires of our hearts. However God is...
  9. charligirl

    What if your guy doesn't feel the same way you do about celibacy?

    Why do I think you're not ready for marriage? Dear lady you answered that question in the quote above. A year is not a long time, the fact that during the time you have prayed for a husband EVERY single day suggests that actually you have not pressed into God to seek Him first and the husband...
  10. charligirl

    Older guys and younger girls

    I have a friend who was 40 and confided in me that a 20 year old girl was showing signs of interest and whilst he really liked her he was looking for my advice on how to let her down gently. I asked him why he woudl want to do that if he genuinely liked her.... They ended up married and have...
  11. charligirl

    What if your guy doesn't feel the same way you do about celibacy?

    That is the crux of your problems I think - you are looking to the wrong place to find fulfillment and have been deceived that it's inthe arms of a man. No man will EVER fulfill you, only God can do that. He can woo you, romance you and love you, Jesus is our bridegrrom for good reason. Until...
  12. charligirl

    What if your guy doesn't feel the same way you do about celibacy?

    So you are saying you find it hard when you are 'in love' with someone to not deny them sexually... yet you have already broken up with the man from the OP? So did you love him or not? presumably not if you have already moved on. Sweetheart it sounds to me like you need to take a step back...
  13. charligirl

    The Bible, Divorce, Remarriage: From the marriage ministry forum

    Yes, they cut posts from two different threads and cobbled them togeter here, reading from the start doesn;t make sense.
  14. charligirl

    derail from Advice needed debating a divorced woman

    Good point, I don't think marriage should EVER be taken lightly. However further study of the verse suggests that Paul is talking about marriage causing problems in general, not specifically remarriage.. he is afterall referring to both virgins in a first marriage AND remarriage.
  15. charligirl

    I don't want to turn 30

    I had more money to spend on myself when I ws 17 than I do now!! I worked two eve jobs and a sat job and had nothing to spend it on but myself!!
  16. charligirl

    derail from Advice needed debating a divorced woman

    But Hm's arguments DO help people live a more fulfilling life. His observations on the whole issue are very much needed for those christians who are trapped in abusive marriages and bound by pharasaical teaching on the law telling them to stay, or leave and be doomed to a lifetime of singleness...
  17. charligirl

    derail from Advice needed debating a divorced woman

    The grace argument is a powerful one, particularly when you see that in Jesus actually said everyone who even looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery! That must be most of the male population already, divorced or not! So following the law to the letter, divorce laws included...
  18. charligirl

    I don't want to turn 30

    Oooh I can hardly wait :)
  19. charligirl

    I don't want to turn 30

    LMAO I did that to Cat Deely at a dinner party, She was about 24 at the time and I was so freaked because I just assumed she was late 20's.. so foot went in mouth and I said 'oh WOW I thought you were SO much... er... younger' it was very obvious that was not what I was thinking :D
  20. charligirl

    I don't want to turn 30

    I have to say I LOVED 30, I woke up in the morning on my Bday and I swear to you I actually felt like I had a new measure of wisdom and gravitas, it was GREAT :D I felt like for years I had felt more mature than my years, (and in the years since I have felt less mature LOL) but on that day it...