I wanted to share and see if others are in the same boat for the position im in. I'd love to share the gospel, but am reluctant to do so because I do not want to be associated with the more conservative elements that dominate modern day Christianity. I am in no way passing judgement on conservatives but as a liberal Christian I do not espouse the same views on issues like gay rights and hence don't want to be seen as leading people to what in my view is not the correct way to view scripture.
I want to spread the gospel with the caveat of "hey, I am telling you about the liberal Jesus guy who loved everyone, healed everyone and extends grace" not the Jesus that we so often see portrayed by some missionaries.
What are the thoughts of other liberals?
Are the views of a potential target welcome?
The first question is just how were you thinking of sharing your faith?
For the sake of a decent exposition let's say it is going door to door and let's take it a step farther that your and others in your Church have decided to have an event and will invite the people you are talking to.
This Does not have to be the way you do things for some of my thought to apply, it is just a foundation so to build specific idea on. Your job to generalize things (or to ask for further thoughts on my part).
First stop and think of when you were on the other end of people going door to door. Remember you are intruding on someone else s privacy. Most assume I know nothing of their God! Say what? I'm an educated man in the U.S. even if I were grossly ignorant I would know the outlines. In my case I'm apt to know far more than they do. I've been to the dark parts of Scripture. Jephthah is well known to me and I take the story as written.
And I've had far too many people coming door to door already in my life.
So potentially I'm a nightmare or a door in your face.
Quick you have 10 seconds to change my mind.
If you wait until then you are going to lose. So plan ahead. Think of some 'shocking' lines. I don't mean vulgar or crude, just radically unexpected.
You have a specific goal, set yourself apart from what I have seen before. You DO NOT need or I think even want to try for the central point of your message, your were spot on that it is too easily confused with a image of Christ you abhor.
Let me give you one I might try.
My Jesus said that any that give a cup of cold water to those who come in his name will not be denied their reward, but I'd prefer a cold beer actually. Not for use unless it is the man of the house for you, same gender in any case.
That works for me as after a half dozen doors I'd really be ready for a cold beer.
Then be ready to explain your God allows, nay encourages happiness. Be ready to explain the differences in your view from what they have come to expect.
Then to what was first and is now last (or at least well into your sell). The event. Try to find something totally different.
Or perhaps not even just one special event. If your Church is socially active perhaps just a handout with events and making it clear non-members are welcome, no obligation, no pressure. Assuming that is the truth of course.
Or perhaps even more ideal if you have a special event you want to do, heck let's say white water rafting (selected because I've done that with Church groups and non-Church Groups) inviting them to that especially if you can honestly say you need a few more people to make the minimum for a group trip or that if you get more you might get a price break it can be a good sell. Again as long as it is honest.
All this assumes you are open to 'outsiders' in your midst.
One caution. A favorite verse on the liberal list is 'Let he without sin cast the first stone'. In an increasing number of cases you will be talking to someone who knows that was added hundreds of years later. Much as I like the though, I refuse to use it as a citation.
Oh I just thought of a more general 'shock' line.
My Jesus can laugh.
Seriously, that totally separates you from the kind of Conservative Christianity you want to be separate from. Of course be ready to explain.
Hi, I'm Fred and my Jesus can laugh is going to get a question back half the time. You sure won't be thought of a puritanical Christian, A JW or a Mormon.