Personal reasons why I don't share the gospel

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Hi,

Maybe some have the same problem as I do.
The reason why I don't share the gospel, is because I don't want to be friends with everyone.
They say keep your circle small, is less exhausting, especially as an introvert that I am.
Thing is we select our friends, we want to spend time with people we can get along with.
Fact is we cannot get along with everyone for example if the social class and culture is different for example.

Br,
 
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Ok, are u sharing the gospel then ?
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I do.

This is really simple, just tell people receiving God's free gift of Eternal Life is simply by belief in Jesus.

Believing that Jesus is the resurrection and the life, the promised Messiah/Son of God and if they believe this they have received God's free gift of Eternal Life and become a permanent born again child of God
 
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Hi,

Maybe some have the same problem as I do.
The reason why I don't share the gospel, is because I don't want to be friends with everyone.
They say keep your circle small, is less exhausting, especially as an introvert that I am.
Thing is we select our friends, we want to spend time with people we can get along with.
Fact is we cannot get along with everyone for example if the social class and culture is different for example.

Br,
Believers should not be apathetic towards the lost. Apathy shows a lack of love. A lack of love towards God and also a lack of love towards others.
Jesus said, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation". Why would you not do as He has asked of you? After all, He gave His life for us and so it is the least we can do for Him.
He also said, "Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me." So, if we love Him, we will obey Him and tell of His great sacrifice.
Another verse He said about love is:
"Love your neighbour as yourself". You love yourself enough that you would beg someone to pull you out of the fire. But you cannot be bothered to care for others? Your lack of love shows a blatant disregard for others who are created in God's image.

Charles Spurgeon said "Have you no wish for others to be saved? Then you're not saved yourself, be sure of that!"

Pray that God will give you a stronger love for Him and also towards others. Love overcomes fear and it will drive you to tell others. If you do not know how then watch Living Waters on YouTube. They have a series called "Way of the Master".
Don't be like many believers and expect everyone else to do it. God has blessed you with the gift of a mouth. If the heavens can speak of His greatness without having the gift of a mouth, how much more should we who have mouths tell of His great sacrifice?
 
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I do.

This is really simple, just tell people receiving God's free gift of Eternal Life is simply by belief in Jesus.

Believing that Jesus is the resurrection and the life, the promised Messiah/Son of God and if they believe this they have received God's free gift of Eternal Life and become a permanent born again child of God
And after that, what is next ?
 
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Actually Jesus Says whoever tries to be a friend of the world cannot be God's friend. So learn instead to be a friend first of God, and then as He Trains you.
I mean after u share the gospel with someone, there already is some small bond with the person,some kind of little friendship, thing is u dont want to be friends or associate with everyone.
 
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Believers should not be apathetic towards the lost. Apathy shows a lack of love. A lack of love towards God and also a lack of love towards others.
Jesus said, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation". Why would you not do as He has asked of you? After all, He gave His life for us and so it is the least we can do for Him.
He also said, "Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me." So, if we love Him, we will obey Him and tell of His great sacrifice.
Another verse He said about love is:
"Love your neighbour as yourself". You love yourself enough that you would beg someone to pull you out of the fire. But you cannot be bothered to care for others? Your lack of love shows a blatant disregard for others who are created in God's image.

Charles Spurgeon said "Have you no wish for others to be saved? Then you're not saved yourself, be sure of that!"

Pray that God will give you a stronger love for Him and also towards others. Love overcomes fear and it will drive you to tell others. If you do not know how then watch Living Waters on YouTube. They have a series called "Way of the Master".
Don't be like many believers and expect everyone else to do it. God has blessed you with the gift of a mouth. If the heavens can speak of His greatness without having the gift of a mouth, how much more should we who have mouths tell of His great sacrifice?
Sometimes u do not want to associate with some people.
 
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And after that, what is next ?

Nothing, you may not even know the person and may never see them again. Or if it is someone you know, then you just continue on with life.

Tell them to find a church who they can grow in, if you know of one, suggest they look into attending the church.
 
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I mean after u share the gospel with someone, there already is some small bond with the person,some kind of little friendship, thing is u dont want to be friends or associate with everyone.

You don't have to share the Gospel. Just live your life according to Christ, growing daily in HIM.

It will show the people who know you what God can do in us over time - and that's it's own witness. :)

The command to spread the Gospel is for the church at large, and we are all gifted differently. We all have different roles in pursuit of the end goal.

Use whatever your own gifts are towards the spreading of the Gospel. You don't have to be a preacher yourself - but you do need to understand the material so you can live it out.
 
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Hi,

Maybe some have the same problem as I do.
The reason why I don't share the gospel, is because I don't want to be friends with everyone.
They say keep your circle small, is less exhausting, especially as an introvert that I am.
Thing is we select our friends, we want to spend time with people we can get along with.
Fact is we cannot get along with everyone for example if the social class and culture is different for example.

Br,
Do you live the gospel?
 
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Hi,

Maybe some have the same problem as I do.
The reason why I don't share the gospel, is because I don't want to be friends with everyone.
They say keep your circle small, is less exhausting, especially as an introvert that I am.
Thing is we select our friends, we want to spend time with people we can get along with.
Fact is we cannot get along with everyone for example if the social class and culture is different for example.

Br,
Ignore the street preachers and their condemnation of you. They aren't into discipleship. They believe "1-2-3 pray after me" if sufficient for them to rack up their crown-count in heaven.
 
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Hi,

Maybe some have the same problem as I do.
The reason why I don't share the gospel, is because I don't want to be friends with everyone.
They say keep your circle small, is less exhausting, especially as an introvert that I am.
Thing is we select our friends, we want to spend time with people we can get along with.
Fact is we cannot get along with everyone for example if the social class and culture is different for example.

Br,
Love is sharing the Gospel. Our actions reflect Him through us. Not a single word has to be uttered.
Be blessed.
 
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You don't have to share the Gospel. Just live your life according to Christ, growing daily in HIM.

It will show the people who know you what God can do in us over time - and that's it's own witness. :)

The command to spread the Gospel is for the church at large, and we are all gifted differently. We all have different roles in pursuit of the end goal.

Use whatever your own gifts are towards the spreading of the Gospel. You don't have to be a preacher yourself - but you do need to understand the material so you can live it out.
Preaching = telling the gospel on stage
Sharing = personal , not on the stage
Preaching is easier than Sharing.

When you share the gospel , you have to associate with the person and thing is, sometimes you dont want to, you want to keep the circle small.
 
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I try to give financial support to ministry, charity etc, and pray for evangelism ( Matthew 9:36-38). I know the Lord expects something of us ( Luke 17:5-10) & try to stay humble.
 
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Preaching = telling the gospel on stage
Sharing = personal , not on the stage
Preaching is easier than Sharing.

You don't have to tell anyone anything more than you believe in Christ, and only when they ask.

Preaching is sharing the Gospel, just with more structure than the living room.
 
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I would like to add some thoughts here.

As I earlier said, sharing the Gospel is a command to the whole of the church.

In this command, we are all gifted differently, because God gifts us differently.

Some people are gifted in business so they contribute funds so missionaries can do missions and so materials and Bibles can be given to those who need them.

Some people are called to give birth to and/or raise a future pastor who will affect many lives.

Others are called to be peacemakers so that missions can go forward and so that Christians can practice their faith.

Others teach future missionaries.

This all contributes to the mission of the church to spread the Gospel. We all have a part, but it's not the same part.

If someone asks you why your Christian tell them. Other than that, live in your gifts.

Your not here saving yourself, Jesus saved you, knowing your every fault and failing. He takes you where you are, and molds you into something better than you ever imagined.

But He knows you. He knows your not good with people and that's fine. You still have a role, it's just not likely to be running around talking to a bunch of people.
 
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Greetings Hazelelponi,
Agreed, ever since St. Paul's missions, ministries in foreign lands and at home have always involved a team effort, with each contributing his different skill-set. We are all blessed differently and good at different things, and specialize from there. It was as true then as it is now. For our missions in Europe, we have many with good hands or construction skills who help in building churches, everywhere from tiny French parish churches to conversion of apartments in a German metropolis for the locals to worship in. We have the preachers and musicians, the hymnal and tract writers. We have the business specialists and many others active in raising funds, we have computer engineers and software designers, those skilled in their secular and church duties alike. And we have the recruiters who spread the word and recruit new missionaries from back home in the US. All are vital contributors.
 
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You don't have to share the Gospel
Where does Jesus say this?
Just live your life according to Christ, growing daily in HIM.
It will show the people who know you what God can do in us over time - and that's it's own witness.
That is correct. Our actions become our witness, and we can be either a good witness or bad witness. If we do bad things, our word becomes compromised, and people will be less likely to believe what we say. The opposite of this is when we act in love, this will give our word credibility. For example, in a court of law, if you have 2 people with conflicting testimonies, one is a prostitute, and the other is a doctor. The doctor is the one most people would believe as his word is not compromised like the prostitute. He is a good witness.
So, your actions validate what you believe, and then when you do say the Gospel, people will be more likely to believe what you say.
We need to be careful that we do share the Gospel. Our good deeds are not the power of God unto salvation. They only give our words credibility. Staying silent is wrong.
In life, if you have the opportunity to stop someone from being killed or injured but you choose not to warn them, then in man's court, you are guilty of a crime called "Depraved Indifference". This shows that you have a blatant disregard for life. It is like if you see a person drowning and you have a life jacket right beside you that you could easily throw to the person. But because you cannot be bothered, you choose not to throw the life jacket and the person then drowns. This is depraved indifference.
If man's court recognises this injustice, how much more would a holy, and just God recognise the injustice of us not warning of eternal death?
We know that we should share the Gospel with as many people as possible. It is the right thing to do.
"So, for one who knows the right thing to do and does not do it, for him it is sin." James 4:17
The command to spread the Gospel is for the church at large, and we are all gifted differently. We all have different roles in pursuit of the end goal.
Use whatever your own gifts are towards the spreading of the Gospel. You don't have to be a preacher yourself - but you do need to understand the material so you can live it out.
Many have used the different giftings as an excuse not to say the Gospel. They say, "I have not been given the gift of evangelism". But if we have a look at the gift of evangelism, it is not a special gift where a person can go out preaching and everyone will be saved. The gift of evangelism is an inward gift for the church so that the believers can be trained to go out and share the Gospel.
Ephesians 4:11-12 says, "So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up".
So, the person with the gift of evangelism will go out and share the Gospel with the lost, just like every other believer should, but they will also have the ability to teach others in the church how to do it as well.

Also, God did make us all different. Some he made to be ears, some he made to be hands, some he made to be a mouth and some he made to be feet.
If you are an ear, listen to people's problems and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are a hand, mow someone's lawn and weed their garden and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are a mouth, teach people and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are feet, walk to the parks or down the street and then tell people the Gospel.

We do have different giftings and abilities and with these, we should bring Glory to God. We should not use our gifts as an excuse not to give God glory.
I am a foot. I often choose to go to the parks and give God glory. Sometimes I am a hand and I share the Gospel. Sometimes I listen to people and then I tell the Gospel.

Ignore the street preachers and their condemnation of you. They aren't into discipleship. They believe "1-2-3 pray after me" if sufficient for them to rack up their crown-count in heaven.
People who love God enough to obey Him and share the Gospel do believe in discipleship. But they are also careful not to fill the church with unbelievers who are weeds amongst the wheat.
Many street preachers do not do, "Pray after me 1-2-3." Instead, they tell the unbeliever to talk to God as soon as they can and tell Him about the sorrow within their heart regarding their sin. Then the preachers also recommend a church. This way, if the person is genuine, they will then want to know more about God and they will find a church. If God starts a work in someone, then He will complete it.

I tell hundreds of people the Gospel and I cannot disciple all of them. Jesus did not disciple all the 5000 people He broke bread with either. And neither did Phillip stay and disciple the Ethiopian eunuch.
Love is sharing the Gospel. Our actions reflect Him through us. Not a single word has to be uttered.
Be blessed.
That sounds similar to "Preach the Gospel at all times, and if necessary, use words". This saying is equivalent to saying, "Feed the hungry and if necessary, use food". Of course, you need to use food when feeding the hungry. And of course, we need to use words when telling the Good News. How will they hear without a preacher? We need to open our mouths.
If a house is on fire and the person inside does not know that it is on fire, and could die any moment, do you yell and warn them, or do you say to yourself, "Because I love this person, I am going to mow his lawn so that I can show love and then I will tell him his house is on fire"?
There is an urgency to tell everyone. Yes, love them. But love them enough to tell them of the condemnation that they are under. Staying silent is unloving and should not be an option.

In saying all this, I do believe that we are not all street preachers. But if we love the lost, we should be looking for every opportunity to tell the Gospel to them. Even if we are not good at speech, God can still use us. We need to be careful that we are not passing on responsibility when we have been given the capability to do it. God blessed has blessed all of us with the gift of a mouth. And those who cannot speak can share the Gospel on the net or hand out tracts.
 
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