I first point to my signature. If theres one thing that frustrates me about the forum (I've been here since early 2000s) is that while I understand the rule about not questioning if someone is a christian, its also sort of bad to have it be against rules. More so if you question their doctrine, they claim your not calling them or their denomination christian.
The bible (again look at my signature pic) talks about not judging. But it also talks about correcting/reproofing your brother/sister in the Lord. Which is the problem here. How can we reproof anyone if everyone just reports you and claims your really just questioning them as a christian. And with some denominations they do need reproof. Maybe it might even help some people to see some of what they do is not right. But we can't say anything.
So on that end it sort of defeats, to some degree, the point of the forum. You come with questions, but people can't always answer honestly without getting in trouble. Now outside of the forum we are free to correct/reproof someone. Because its what Jesus would do.
Though I do understand the rules from the point of view that everyone can disagree about things. So if we reproofed everyone it would just be endless debates since everyone thinks their view of things is correct. I think it would be best if the rule wasn't so strict, because in my mind, why would I be offended if someone questioned my christianity/denomination? Only God knows the truth so it doesn't matter if I am questioned. Someone questioning me doesn't do anything. Actually for all I know maybe it will help me.
When I was rebelling as a christian for years I was here. Finally people keep questioning me and my beliefs. I didn't turn anyone in. And thanks to them doing this to me, I realized MANY errors in my ways. Which is the point of correction.
In the end you have to try your best to bite your tongue. Even though you know your not questioning if their a Christian per say, you still have to realize most will report you because they think your attacking them. Which last thing I will say is thats part of the problem I noticed as a christian. No matter the denomination, age of the person, maturity, sex....etc to many today quickly throw out "God says not to judge, you can't judge me!". And despite them being wrong it seems hard to talk to anyone (referring to outside here too) because people are not taught about correction/reproof.
This probably goes along the lines of cherry picking. When feeling attacked "Do not judge" is the most cherry picked line to use. This is why on the advice section especially I say nothing about anything that may even sound like it could be taken wrong. Again, I understand why the rule is in place but its still frustrating at times when you can't answer honestly. But this is the biggest Christian forum on the web so I prefer to stay here.