I doubt you are going to find "unambiguous evidence" that can't be defeated by some sort of argument.
Again, we come back to the issue in the first post. Is it possible to convince me? If not, I'm destined for hell. If so, then God would know what he would need to do in order to convince me, and
could convince me.
I mean, imagine a world in which once a week, God checked in with people in their dreams. Every once in a while, say, maybe once every few weeks on Sunday evening before the work week starts, after you fall asleep, God appears to you in a lucid dream, talks through your week, and maybe gives you a few pointers on how to be a better person and a better Christian. This would be the kind of behavior which would leave virtually no doubt that there is a God, and even less doubt that that God wants a personal relationship with us. I don't think there'd
be such a thing as an atheist or a non-Christian.
That's not what happens, though. Instead, this "personal relationship" that we're supposed to have with God is contingent upon us first believing that he exists. We have to believe,
then we'll get evidence. Eventually. Conditionally. Maybe. I mean, just ask Matt Dillahunty how well that worked out for him - faithful Christian all his life, ended up deconverting while in seminary when he tried to fulfill his obligation from 1 Peter 3:15 and found that he couldn't. Or, you know, ask me - I used to be a Christian. I used to pray. But eventually I realized I was just talking to the walls, and they weren't listening, and that I had no reason to believe what I believed. So I changed my mind. (I dislike using myself for this example because I was never the
best Christian, wasn't much of a churchgoer, raised by hippies, etc., but I truly did believe in God, otherwise I wouldn't have prayed to him.)
Saul was not saved because he was worthy. None of us merit salvation. On the contrary, God often goes after the worst sorts of people to save (let's keep in mind that Saul was basically the iron age equivalent of an ISIS iihadi, he was indeed a murderer). And God chooses to save those people in that manner according to his purposes, not ours.
"God works in mysterious ways" is not a very satisfying answer to the question of why a being who wants a relationship with me is unwilling to reveal himself in any way until I accept his existence without good reason, particularly given how he revealed himself unambiguously to various people throughout history.
I have no time to listen to that radio program, sorry.
It's fine, it's a point you hear quite often when Christians call in to witness - the "messages from God" they often report just seem to be simple coincidences.
But I think I know where you are headed. And I don't really have an answer that will knock your socks off. "Coincidences" or rather synchronicities have been taken seriously by many people of intelligence, such as Carl Jung, as evidence of something deeper going on than just some kind of random, blind luck.
As smart as Jung is, I don't see the concept of synchronicities to be particularly sensible. Humans look for patterns in
everything. We even find them when they aren't there. It seems like wishful thinking to me, and I don't know what could possibly prove it wrong - it's certainly not a scientific hypothesis.
You see the glass half-empty, I see it as half-full. I choose to see it as half-full, even when I can't be sure I see the glass clearly at all. Because, in the end, I have nothing to lose by doing so, and everything to gain.
A few things religious belief can cost you:
- Your morality (see also: Ted Haggard, ISIS, Peter Popoff)
- Your time (or at least your sunday mornings)
- The value of your humanity (or does the message that we all deserve to be tortured forever not do that?)
- Your ability to accurately assess the world (see also: the entire Creation and Evolution forum)
- Your money (see also: Peter Popoff)
- Your life (Jehovah's Witnesses and Christian Scientists are well-known for their rejection of life-saving medical treatments, and that's just scratching the surface)
Maybe it hasn't cost you
any of that. I don't know you, and I'm not sure what, exactly, you believe. But let's not pretend that there's no price to taking things on faith. Heck, for all we know, there
is a God, but he's the ironic kind who values critical thinking above all, and who will cast believers into eternal hellfire. In that case, wagering falsely would cost you everything.
I'm not talking about pitting one religions doctrines against another here (I admit, I choose to remain a Christian at times for somewhat pragmatic reasons), I'm just talking about being open to the possibility of an expanded moral and aesthetic vision that religion and spirituality offers, vs. just accepting the world as nothing more than what can be defined by whatever the current scientific consensus is.
I have no problem with being open to the possibility of such things. Anything is
possible. But we need to be able to separate the possible from the actual. As of yet, I know of no mechanism which is useful for doing so outside of empiricism, and no method within empiricism which works better than the scientific method. We need those methods before we can really do much about it - sure, it
might exist, but we have no reason to believe that and no method to ascertain evidence for it.
And in my experience, there's something quite powerful about all those "coincidences". Maybe not undeniable. I don't believe God usually wants to hit us over the head and compel us to believe, as in the case of Saul on the road to Damascus.
Why not? If I ask a woman I meet online to do a short video chat with me to ensure that she's actually the person she's presenting herself as, is she hitting me over the head and compelling me to believe that she's real? Well maybe, but the basis for
any relationship really should be the understanding that those parties involved
exist. We take this for granted in our day-to-day lives. There's exactly one kind of relationship I've seen where you haveto argue with others over whether the other party exists: "I have a girlfriend from another school, you don't know her" - in other words, relationships where the other party doesn't actually exist. :/ It should be a
given that both parties in the relationship know that the other exists.
I don't see these coincidences as particularly powerful. Is that my fault? I dunno. But if god wants to reach me, then it's going to take more than that and He knows it. Which means the question remains: why
hasn't He reached me? Why hasn't He tried? Does He not care that I will burn in hell for not knowing Him? It's the same issue with those whispers, that apparently can't be heard if our own voice is the loudest. Not only does this ignore the experience of any Christian who didn't hear God and deconverted, but God should
know that many of us won't hear those whispers. He's either incapable or uninterested in reaching me, and neither bodes well if he cares about us and wants a relationship with us.
It's not an apologetic, and not really out to prove that God exists. But it does talk about what exactly Christians, and specifically Charismatic Christians, are getting out of their religious experiences, from a sociological and wider scientific perspective. And it does analyze the "method" that Charismatic Christians use to obtain that sort of awareness of God's presence and engage in a relationship with God, and looks at it in terms of the psychology and sociology, primarily. There's a great history of the theology of Christian mysticism there, too.
I'll see if my local library has a copy. Doubtful; it doesn't run many books in English, but worth a shot.