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I would consider coitus without giving a thought to the possible consequences downright stupid.
I would consider coitus with a partner you barely know and have absolutely no intention of trying to build a life with irresponsible, and, yes, downright stupid.
The intent should be to make love, not just have an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse].
I'm going to assume that the couple would be using reliable birth control if they don't want a child, right? Otherwise "stupid" doesn't even begin to cover it.
And I would expect a loving couple to be prepared to be parents "just in case".
Obfuscation duly noted (Thanks however, for answering my question with your non-answer).

You didn't answer the question. Do you consider a male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], in which millions of viable sperm are "wasted" with every [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], murder? For that matter, do you consider every menstrual cycle that passes without fertilization, murder?

These are serious questions. I'd like to know at which point you consider a group of cells to be a "baby," and at which point they're not?
 
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Again, not a child, just as a fresh laid egg is not a bird.
Well, then, we have some very confused birds in our backyard. They fully expect those eggs to hatch out baby birds. How foolish of them!

Yes, I did. It absolutely depends on the mother in order to properly function. It isn't a child.

Uh...an organ is something you depend on to properly function. Like your kidneys or your lungs or your heart...

And while we're on the subject, I've yet to meet a newborn infant who could fix his own bottle or change his own nappies. He's going to be quite dependent on his parents for some time. Should we kill him for being so helpless?

Now I'll state my stance. I'm pro-choice. Women should have the right to have control over their bodily choices. Their reasons concern me not. And that's because there's plenty of valid reasons to have an abortion and there are some that are just vile.

Women do have the right to control their bodily choices. We have the right to use birth control, and we have the right to say "no". Most women know when their most "fertile" time is, and if she doesn't, her doctor will explain it to her. She has the right not to have sex during that period.
What we do not have the right to do is to take another person's life, just because that person happens to be developing within our bodies.

Do I like the idea? No. But It's not my decision to make.
And it's far more reasonable to have it done via professional procedures than alternative, hap hazardous methods. Because like the ridiculous idea of prohibition, outlawing it will only increase the rate of it happening. We've learned from this.

I wish you hadn't chosen prohibition as your example.
Or had you forgotten that it was a drunk driver that made me a widow and left my children fatherless?
Would it surprise you that I am a member of MADD?

Quite frankly, I find it rather difficult to find much pity for some idiot who tried to have a "back alley abortion".
Good gravy, have you people never heard of adoption?
 
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Well, then, we have some very confused birds in our backyard. They fully expect those eggs to hatch out baby birds. How foolish of them!

Do they feed these eggs? Do they fly? Because I'd like to see that.

Uh...an organ is something you depend on to properly function. Like your kidneys or your lungs or your heart...

I can operate without kidneys, eyes, a lung, ears. You do realize those can be removed or malfunction and I'd be okay right? Oh and the Appendix can be completely removed.

And while we're on the subject, I've yet to meet a newborn infant who could fix his own bottle or change his own nappies. He's going to be quite dependent on his parents for some time. Should we kill him for being so helpless?

Ahaha. I'm not gonna dignify this. You're doing that on purpose.

Women do have the right to control their bodily choices.

And that's the end of the argument. Night folks!

We have the right to use birth control, and we have the right to say "no".

Oh there's more. Jeez.

Most women know when their most "fertile" time is, and if she doesn't, her doctor will explain it to her. She has the right not to have sex during that period.

Point?

What we do not have the right to do is to take another person's life, just because that person happens to be developing within our bodies.

Well when the other person shows up let us know. But terminating an early pregnancy isn't killing a person so...

I wish you hadn't chosen prohibition as your example. Or had you forgotten that it was a drunk driver that made me a widow and left my children fatherless?

Never heard that story, sorry to hear that. If it makes you feel better rarely drink.

Would it surprise you that I am a member of MADD?

Nope. I'm surprised there are people that aren't part of MADD.

Quite frankly, I find it rather difficult to find much pity for some idiot who tried to have a "back alley abortion".

Yes. That's why legal, less harmful procedures are much more practical.

Good gravy, have you people never heard of adoption?

Well what if it's life threatening? Giving birth can be harmful or fatal to alot of women.(Source: http://www.unfpa.org/maternal-health) If advised by a doctor that she may severely harmed or die from giving birth, what then?

What if it's severely damaging mentally and causes PPD? This isn't a new revelation.

What about women who were raped? This is the main reason for it. Pregnancy is involuntary so they can't just choose to not have the child should that occur.

What if the woman is infected by their mate (or rapist) or themselves with HIV?

These are very tough decisions to make and I doubt anyone just makes it lightly but we have to keep the door open for women to make the decision. The fact that pregnancy is involuntary is the reason we have this choice. This is why me and other people defend the decision even though we don't like it either. It's their choice to make. They don't just wake up and say "Yup, abortion" walk in like a salon and then walk out.

It's preventing a future life from ever being born. A lot of people take that thought process into deep consideration.

We must not shut out their decision to control their life. It's tough to grasp and is hard to swallow but that's how it has to be. And hardcore terrorists and badgers who bomb clinics and stand outside shouting down women making an incredibly difficult decision like they're not in enough anguish makes them horrible disgusting people. How dare any of you cast judgement on them?
 
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abortion? I just tuned back in and am wondering how that subject got started.

What amazes me is that if a child is born 2 months prematurely, we call it a person and he/she has a right to life and people would be charged of murder if they killed him/her. But that same child still in the womb and not born 2 months prematurely could be killed and no one would call it murder then. The only difference was that in one case, the child was outside the womb, and in the second case the child was inside the womb.
 
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abortion? I just tuned back in and am wondering how that subject got started.

What amazes me is that if a child is born 2 months prematurely, we call it a person and he/she has a right to life and people would be charged of murder if they killed him/her. But that same child still in the womb and not born 2 months prematurely could be killed and no one would call it murder then. The only difference was that in one case, the child was outside the womb, and in the second case the child was inside the womb.

2 months? Not worth responding to this...
 
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Obfuscation duly noted (Thanks however, for answering my question with your non-answer).

You didn't answer the question. Do you consider a male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], in which millions of viable sperm are "wasted" with every [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], murder? For that matter, do you consider every menstrual cycle that passes without fertilization, murder?

These are serious questions. I'd like to know at which point you consider a group of cells to be a "baby," and at which point they're not?

Oh, now you are just being ridiculous. I thought you were asking me a serious question, so I gave you what I thought was a serious answer.

No, I do not consider every male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or every female menstrual period to be murder, and I rather resent your vile attempt to make me out to be an idiot.
I suppose it is my fault for assuming that most atheists were "science geeks".
From the moment it implants and begins to develop, it is a baby. Any kindergartner could probably tell you that.
"Hey, Junior, what is that growing in your Mommy's tummy?"
"It's a new baby."
"When did it get to be a baby?"
"When it started to grow in Mommy's tummy. You sure are dumb, for a grown up."
 
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Oh come off it. No it isn't. A cocoon isn't a butterfly. An egg isn't a bird. A tadpole isn't a frog.

And a fertilized egg isn't a baby. It's a fertilized egg.

It's nice to see you using child logic though. Children are great experts.

Also it's a pretty big misstep to assume atheists are all "science geeks" as you call it. So that was a whoops on your part. But since I'm on mobile and at work at the moment with little down time I'm gonna assume that statement was unwarranted.
 
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The more I hear from you, the happier I am that I am not an atheist.

What does atheism have to do with abortion? You do know that some Christians are pro-choice?

Women do have the right to control their bodily choices. We have the right to use birth control, and we have the right to say "no". Most women know when their most "fertile" time is, and if she doesn't, her doctor will explain it to her. She has the right not to have sex during that period.
What we do not have the right to do is to take another person's life, just because that person happens to be developing within our bodies.

But we aren't talking about a person, but a zygote, a fertilised egg.

Quite frankly, I find it rather difficult to find much pity for some idiot who tried to have a "back alley abortion".
Good gravy, have you people never heard of adoption?

Since you support adoption as a proper alternative, I presume you support adoption for same-sex couples?
 
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Oh, now you are just being ridiculous. I thought you were asking me a serious question, so I gave you what I thought was a serious answer.

No, I do not consider every male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or every female menstrual period to be murder, and I rather resent your vile attempt to make me out to be an idiot.
I suppose it is my fault for assuming that most atheists were "science geeks".
From the moment it implants and begins to develop, it is a baby. Any kindergartner could probably tell you that.
If a kindergarden-aged child examines a zygote through a microscope, do you think that their first response will be that the object they are looking at is a baby?

From the moment it implants and begins to develop, it is a baby.

Why from the moment of implantation? Why not fertilisation? Why not before that, when the gametes formed?
 
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Oh, now you are just being ridiculous. I thought you were asking me a serious question, so I gave you what I thought was a serious answer.

No, I do not consider every male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or every female menstrual period to be murder, and I rather resent your vile attempt to make me out to be an idiot.
I suppose it is my fault for assuming that most atheists were "science geeks".
From the moment it implants and begins to develop, it is a baby. Any kindergartner could probably tell you that.
"Hey, Junior, what is that growing in your Mommy's tummy?"
"It's a new baby."
"When did it get to be a baby?"
"When it started to grow in Mommy's tummy. You sure are dumb, for a grown up."

So if an unknowing mother does some jumping jacks and a recently implanted cluster of cells gets naturally aborted... that mother is a murderer?

What I'm really curious about is why the uproar over abortion? Why not harass military recruiters/soldiers/officials? If you genuinely see what they do as murder... why not go after them? Why not call the many christians here who've been in the military murderers? After all, if it's post-Vietnam we're talking about... you know it wasn't an accident. They volunteered to kill.

Or is it just easier to pick on 16 girls faced with a tough choice?
 
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Too many pro choice nuts seem to think women actually want to have abortions. They think it is "a simple procedure, like having a wart removed". They imagine the cool, sophisticated, woman-about-town, sauntering in, having her procedure, and walking out, with no more concern than if she'd just had a manicure.
Actually, I have found this idea about women´s attitude towards abortion to be central in many anti-abortion arguments, rather than pro choice arguments.
I´m glad to see you aren´t agreeing with their assumptions.
I assure you, that just is not true.
Well, whereas I assure you that such generalisations may simplify things, but on the other hand may be oversimplifying them.
Most of those women are scared down to their toenails. They no more want to have the abortion than they want to go swimming in a shark infested pool.
You are NOT "empowering women".
If a person has guilt feelings and seeks our help/advice, the first question is: How do we want them to deal with those guilt feelings.
In my opinion and experiences, guilt feelings can have very different reasons and causes, and they do not necessarily point to the person being guilty.
Thus, I do not even see how their guilt feelings help making an argument for or against abortion.
If you are "pro choice", you are doing far more harm than you could possibly realize.
How exactly? Because I do not reinforce their guilt feelings?
It's not the nasty Christians who are giving these poor women guilt complexes.
So do you think a person should feel guilty for having an abortion, or do you think they shouldn´t?
It is the fact that they are consenting to the death of their baby. You can call it a "clump of cells" all you like...the pregnant woman knows that that "clump of cells" is her baby.
And how does one murder their own child, even if it is legal...without guilt?
Quite ironic how you manage to give examples of subtle guilt induction right after saying it´s not you who is inducing guilt feelings.
 
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So if an unknowing mother does some jumping jacks and a recently implanted cluster of cells gets naturally aborted... that mother is a murderer?

Hold on hold on now I know what you're getting at but let's give her at least that much respect. Even after the child analogy thing.
 
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So if an unknowing mother does some jumping jacks and a recently implanted cluster of cells gets naturally aborted... that mother is a murderer?

It's kinda hard to take you seriously when you throw such nonsense at me.

What I'm really curious about is why the uproar over abortion? Why not harass military recruiters/soldiers/officials? If you genuinely see what they do as murder... why not go after them? Why not call the many christians here who've been in the military murderers? After all, if it's post-Vietnam we're talking about... you know it wasn't an accident. They volunteered to kill.

Would it make you happier if you knew that, back in the sixties, I was one of those who protested the war in Viet Nam? Would you like to hear about how my best friend's brother was killed in that war?
Suppose I told you that my Dad, who was a hero in WWII, told us that if it went on long enough that his sons...my two kid brothers...should be in danger of being drafted, that he personally would move his family into Canada...and that he had already made some arrangements to do just that.

Or is it just easier to pick on 16 girls faced with a tough choice?

Did you miss where I told you that I have actually taken these girls into my own home, and spent my own money on them? I am not the one "picking on" them. I'm the one doing everything she can to help them, while the pro choice nuts just sit on the sidelines, doing nothing but making a bad situation worse. Nobody really believes the garbage about "it's not a baby". We've all had friends who were pregnant, and we went to the baby showers, and when the little tyke was born, we all wanted to hold him. These girls do not come out of a vacuum. They are real young women, with real feelings. And it is odd, how, once the abortion is over, all the pro choice nuts just fade back into the woodwork.
I've even been there for a girl who insisted, even though she knew what she was doing, that she would have the abortion. I knew she'd need comforting and cozening afterward....and I knew there'd be no pro choice nuts around to do it.
I swear, I think some of you would jump on any bandwagon that comes along...not an original thought among the lot of the "politically correct" crowd.
 
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Did you miss where I told you that I have actually taken these girls into my own home, and spent my own money on them? I am not the one "picking on" them. I'm the one doing everything she can to help them, while the pro choice nuts just sit on the sidelines, doing nothing but making a bad situation worse.
Please stop pretending that you're the only person who has ever offered help to women in this situation. You're not.

Nobody really believes the garbage about "it's not a baby". We've all had friends who were pregnant, and we went to the baby showers, and when the little tyke was born, we all wanted to hold him. These girls do not come out of a vacuum. They are real young women, with real feelings.

It seems you only care about their feelings (1) after they've had an abortion and (2) only if they feel guilt and shame.

I've even been there for a girl who insisted, even though she knew what she was doing, that she would have the abortion. I knew she'd need comforting and cozening afterward....and I knew there'd be no pro choice nuts around to do it.

That isn't accurate. See the link provided.
 
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Why not, Grim?
It's a reasonable question. Why should the kid's location make the difference between life and death?

You should respond to my numerous responses to you.

And that deserved no response because he was intentionally baiting someone. 2 Months before birth? Seriously? All I did was call him out. Nobody else did because they know better than to respond to someone portraying such a childlike understanding of this subject, but I wanted to make sure he knew his comment went noticed for the wrong reasons. Pheh.

I only bite bait questions to tear off the hook and leave the fisherman looking sad.
 
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You should respond to my numerous responses to you.

And that deserved no response because he was intentionally baiting someone. 2 Months before birth? Seriously? All I did was call him out. Nobody else did because they know better than to respond to someone portraying such a childlike understanding of this subject, but I wanted to make sure he knew his comment went noticed for the wrong reasons. Pheh.

I only bite bait questions to tear off the hook and leave the fisherman looking sad.

I was just asking an honest question and I don't see what justification you have for refusing to answer. I'm curious as to how you could not call it murder when a baby exists inside the womb but then call it murder when the same baby is outside the womb.
 
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Oh come off it. No it isn't. A cocoon isn't a butterfly. An egg isn't a bird. A tadpole isn't a frog.

The telos of a tadpole is to be a frog and make more frogs. A tadpole is a stage in the development cycle of a frog. By killing an embryo, the natural development in the life cycle of a human person is ended. That is what traditionally Christians object to.

It's nice to see you using child logic though. Children are great experts.

It does have a way of cutting through sophistry.
 
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Oh, now you are just being ridiculous. I thought you were asking me a serious question, so I gave you what I thought was a serious answer.

No, I do not consider every male [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or every female menstrual period to be murder, and I rather resent your vile attempt to make me out to be an idiot.
I suppose it is my fault for assuming that most atheists were "science geeks".
From the moment it implants and begins to develop, it is a baby. Any kindergartner could probably tell you that.
"Hey, Junior, what is that growing in your Mommy's tummy?"
"It's a new baby."
"When did it get to be a baby?"
"When it started to grow in Mommy's tummy. You sure are dumb, for a grown up."
So, your understanding of fetal development is on the level of a child?
 
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Do they feed these eggs? Do they fly? Because I'd like to see that.
Once again, your attitude is condescending. I really wish you wouldn't do that.
Of course, those eggs don't fly...however the parents stay very close to that nest, and...oh, wait! We have baby birds this morning!


I can operate without kidneys, eyes, a lung, ears. You do realize those can be removed or malfunction and I'd be okay right? Oh and the Appendix can be completely removed.

You wouldn't operate very well or for very long without those bits. You'd need help with eliminating urine without your kidneys, you'd need to be led around without your eyes, you'd have some problems breathing with only one lung, and you'd be deaf without your ears. Although you'd be fine without your appendix, that is true. I notice you did not put the heart on your list...


Ahaha. I'm not gonna dignify this. You're doing that on purpose.

What, Grim? Pointing out that a newborn is helpless? If no one picks him up shortly after birth, he will die. But what of it? It's not really a person yet, is it?



And that's the end of the argument. Night folks!
Actually, I don't intend to go on with this too much longer.
Frankly, it's all old hat, and getting quite boring.



Oh there's more. Jeez.
I do love a dash of sarcasm....




I would have thought it was obvious. A woman can plot her "fertile time" and simply avoid having sex during those few days. It's not as if anyone is going to load all the men up in a spaceship and take them away...there will be men for her to....uh....love...afterwards...



Well when the other person shows up let us know. But terminating an early pregnancy isn't killing a person so...
Again with the condescending attitude.
I'm letting you know...the person showed up before the woman even knew she was pregnant.



Never heard that story, sorry to hear that. If it makes you feel better rarely drink.
I don't drink.



Nope. I'm surprised there are people that aren't part of MADD.
I'm proud of you, Grim.
It's good to know that you do have some respect for life...



Yes. That's why legal, less harmful procedures are much more practical.
:confused2:I don't think you quite get it.




Well what if it's life threatening? Giving birth can be harmful or fatal to alot of women.(Source: http://www.unfpa.org/maternal-health) If advised by a doctor that she may severely harmed or die from giving birth, what then?

Oh, Grim...in those very rare cases where carrying to term would threaten the mother's life, of course, the decision must be between the family and their doctor. Of course, it always was.

What if it's severely damaging mentally and causes PPD? This isn't a new revelation.
PPD? Do you mean "post partum depression"? Hun, most of us have a bout of that after the baby is born. It is usually not serious, and goes away rather quickly. A new Mom doesn't really have time to sit around and be depressed...

What about women who were raped? This is the main reason for it. Pregnancy is involuntary so they can't just choose to not have the child should that occur.
Again, in those vanishingly rare cases where someone gets pregnant by rape, the decision ought to be between her and her doctor. I will tell you, though, there are a few women who chose to keep the baby, and the decision brought her great joy. She sees her little girl as the good thing that came from her suffering.

What if the woman is infected by their mate (or rapist) or themselves with HIV?
No one would expect a woman with HIV to try to carry a child. Grim, you're reaching, here. I'm not sure someone with HIV could even get pregnant...

These are very tough decisions to make and I doubt anyone just makes it lightly but we have to keep the door open for women to make the decision. The fact that pregnancy is involuntary is the reason we have this choice. This is why me and other people defend the decision even though we don't like it either. It's their choice to make. They don't just wake up and say "Yup, abortion" walk in like a salon and then walk out.

Most pregnancy is not "involuntary". The man and the woman know exactly what they are doing, and they chose to take the chance that the woman might get pregnant.
Do you understand what I am saying? The woman CHOSE to have sex, KNOWING that she could get pregnant.
The only time you could honestly say that pregnancy is "involuntary" is in the case of rape, which we covered above.
What I've been saying all along is...make responsible choices.
And that goes for the guys, as well. I don't think it's quite fair to lay it all on the woman. Guys tend to get the idea that, oh, well, if she does get pregnant, it's her problem. She can get an abortion. It's her responsibility, not mine....

It's preventing a future life from ever being born. A lot of people take that thought process into deep consideration.
Exactly.

We must not shut out their decision to control their life. It's tough to grasp and is hard to swallow but that's how it has to be.
Nobody wants to shut out a woman's right to control her own life. However, women MUST make responsible choices. Sex is a very powerful thing...it is not a toy to be played with.


And hardcore terrorists and badgers who bomb clinics and stand outside shouting down women making an incredibly difficult decision like they're not in enough anguish makes them horrible disgusting people. How dare any of you cast judgement on them?
I agree with you about bombing clinics, or shooting doctors, or any of that nonsense. We are pro LIFE....not pro violence.
And the women who picket clinics...well, they do have the right to do that, under the Constitution, and I won't say that they are wrong for what they are doing. There is always the hope that someone in anguish might be saved from making a horrible decision that is going to haunt her for the rest of her life.
Wouldn't it be so much better to see her, a happy mother with her adorable baby in her arms than an emotional wreck who keeps having nightmares about her dead baby?
 
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