If you mean going around saying, "You committed this sin, you're going to hell," then I agree re the higher calling, etc.
However - - the most frequent heard complaint from non-Christians is, "Why shouldn't I get into heaven too, even if I don't love God or have faith in Christ? You're judgemental! You want me to go to hell!"
I've always found it utterly ridiculous.
I don't want anyone to go to hell, but you've been told the truth, you reject the truth, you suffer the consequences of your own decisions.
If you do not apply to go to Harvard, it is not Harvard's fault that you are not a Harvard graduate.
If you apply, but do not meet the academic requirements, again, it is not Harvard's fault.
If you receive an invitation from Harvard, and toss it in the trash, it is still not Harvard's fault.
And Harvard not coming and dragging you in the gates does not mean they do not want you to have a college education.
I am so weary of people who seem to have no concept of responsiblity and consequence for their own choices, actions, etc.