What's a "church name"?
- The Ancient Way - Eastern Orthodox
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The tradition of the Greeks is that the first grandchildren are named after their grandparents, with their "middle name", being their father's name in the possessive tense - a patronymic. That accounts for 4 children, assuming there is a gender equivalent name. The baptismal sponsor is often allowed to pick the child's name, presumably as an inducement to serve as such. In large families, the child's name might be that of another relative or any other, including the saint's day of the child's birth or baptism. The grandparents are usually accounted for first, but not always.
As for American Greeks, some families preserve this tradition but often in the 3rd and 4th generation it is not followed. It is one of the first casualties of a mixed marriage. In the 2nd generation of US immigrants, with a strong sense of blending in, it was not uncommon for children to be given an "anglo" legal name that started with the same letter of the alphabet as the Greek name. At communion, the child would give her Greek Christian name. So, perhaps, Maxine for Magdalene. That didn't last long as mixed marriages began to predominate.
I think the Greek method of honoring the grandparents is a very good one. Better than the soap opera names. Of course soon, and likely now, the grandparents have soap opera names.
Yeah, this grinds my gears.
As for American Greeks, some families preserve this tradition but often in the 3rd and 4th generation it is not followed. It is one of the first casualties of a mixed marriage. In the 2nd generation of US immigrants, with a strong sense of blending in, it was not uncommon for children to be given an "anglo" legal name that started with the same letter of the alphabet as the Greek name. At communion, the child would give her Greek Christian name. So, perhaps, Maxine for Magdalene. That didn't last long as mixed marriages began to predominate.
I think the Greek method of honoring the grandparents is a very good one. Better than the soap opera names. Of course soon, and likely now, the grandparents have soap opera names.
Yeah, this grinds my gears.
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